Anonymous
Post 12/13/2025 14:16     Subject: DD has been sending anonymous letters to her crush

Anonymous wrote:BS. No one has lockers anymore.


Why is this?/ My kid said only nerds use them.
Anonymous
Post 12/13/2025 14:14     Subject: DD has been sending anonymous letters to her crush

Anonymous wrote:DD, 16, has a crush. Normal enough. But she has been leaving notes in his locker as a "secret admirer" which I just learned today. The notes say things like "I feel like I've always known you" and other odd sentiments. I find this worrying and am worried that DD will get in trouble for harassment. What do I do? I told her to stop but she just said that I "don't understand teen romance." Ick.


In his locker lol? Troll.
Anonymous
Post 12/11/2025 18:56     Subject: DD has been sending anonymous letters to her crush

Let her cook
Anonymous
Post 12/11/2025 16:26     Subject: DD has been sending anonymous letters to her crush

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:BS. No one has lockers anymore.


+1 troll fail


I don't understand conclusions like this? You really think no teen anywhere has a locker? Mine had one last year and has friends who do this year. Optional but available at their school.
Anonymous
Post 12/11/2025 16:18     Subject: DD has been sending anonymous letters to her crush

Anonymous wrote:In our day we made a fake AIM handle to stalk our crush. Was that any better?


Who’s we? I never did this
Anonymous
Post 12/11/2025 14:59     Subject: DD has been sending anonymous letters to her crush

In our day we made a fake AIM handle to stalk our crush. Was that any better?
Anonymous
Post 12/11/2025 14:50     Subject: DD has been sending anonymous letters to her crush

Stop this behavior as stalking is viewed harshly by both victims and employers/administrators. Plus, not a good EC for college applications.
Anonymous
Post 12/11/2025 14:41     Subject: DD has been sending anonymous letters to her crush

Anonymous wrote:Your kid is mentally ill get them help this is not normal


It’s totally normal to think this way. There are whole songs (very popular ones) dedicated to this idea.
Anonymous
Post 12/11/2025 14:36     Subject: DD has been sending anonymous letters to her crush

Every breath you take
And every move you make
Every bond you break
Every step you take
I'll be watching you

Every single day
And every word you say
Every game you play
Every night you stay
I'll be watching you

Oh, can't you see
You belong to me?

…..so creepy, but yet so relevant and relatable
Anonymous
Post 12/11/2025 14:33     Subject: DD has been sending anonymous letters to her crush

Anonymous wrote:This is totally normal teenage behavior even if it's going to be mortifying later. Let it happen.


+1
Explore with her the possible outcomes and consequences. Then when she’s mortified tell her ‘we knew this was a possibility’
Anonymous
Post 12/11/2025 14:32     Subject: DD has been sending anonymous letters to her crush

I have teen boys and they would absolutely have the same “ick” feeling.
Anonymous
Post 12/11/2025 14:31     Subject: DD has been sending anonymous letters to her crush

Your kid is mentally ill get them help this is not normal
Anonymous
Post 12/11/2025 14:30     Subject: DD has been sending anonymous letters to her crush

Anonymous wrote:Someone should tell her if she has to pursue a guy for attention- he isn’t into her


+1 I wish someone had told me that! Cringing on some of the things I did.
Anonymous
Post 12/11/2025 14:21     Subject: DD has been sending anonymous letters to her crush

Someone should tell her if she has to pursue a guy for attention- he isn’t into her
Anonymous
Post 12/11/2025 14:19     Subject: DD has been sending anonymous letters to her crush

Anonymous wrote:I did this as a teen. Cute!


It is scary to be on the receiving end of this.