Anonymous
Post 12/11/2025 08:16     Subject: Why do so many married men cheat?
Anonymous wrote:Because it’s just sex and people shouldn’t care so damned much. All that matters is who he comes home to in the end.

Literally anything else I could do with a friend (go hiking, share a meal, watch a movie, etc) but sex is different. If my spouse ever cheats I'm gone.
Anonymous
Post 12/11/2025 01:37     Subject: Why do so many married men cheat?
According to mine, I stopped giving him time after the birth of our son and he "sought something to fulfill." And I did ask the young woman he cheated with and she said they had a connection.
Anonymous
Post 12/11/2025 01:15     Subject: Why do so many married men cheat?
Anonymous wrote:I’ve thought about this for years. Took my ex husband and I a long time to buy a home, get two good jobs, birth three wonderful kids… all for that to be blown up by his affair. We literally had just become financially stable when everything was blown up. Now he lost his career, I barely make enough to save anything, and kids are coping with 50/50. Quality of life went downhill for everyone. But, ex is still with AP, and I suppose they are happy (albeit not living together). I suppose it was worth it in his mind.


She will dump him because the excitement factor is gone. She got what she wanted ie for him to leave another woman for her.
Anonymous
Post 12/11/2025 00:00     Subject: Why do so many married men cheat?
Anonymous wrote:I’ve thought about this for years. Took my ex husband and I a long time to buy a home, get two good jobs, birth three wonderful kids… all for that to be blown up by his affair. We literally had just become financially stable when everything was blown up. Now he lost his career, I barely make enough to save anything, and kids are coping with 50/50. Quality of life went downhill for everyone. But, ex is still with AP, and I suppose they are happy (albeit not living together). I suppose it was worth it in his mind.


Never would admit it wasn’t worth it
Anonymous
Post 12/10/2025 23:11     Subject: Why do so many married men cheat?
I’ve thought about this for years. Took my ex husband and I a long time to buy a home, get two good jobs, birth three wonderful kids… all for that to be blown up by his affair. We literally had just become financially stable when everything was blown up. Now he lost his career, I barely make enough to save anything, and kids are coping with 50/50. Quality of life went downhill for everyone. But, ex is still with AP, and I suppose they are happy (albeit not living together). I suppose it was worth it in his mind.
Anonymous
Post 12/10/2025 22:48     Subject: Why do so many married men cheat?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I don’t know any married men who cheat, but I’m a divorced woman, and in all the divorces, I know of personally cheating was not a factor at all because it didn’t happen that wasn’t the reason for the divorce.


Unfortunately people assume women dumped their husbands because they cheated.


I assume because one was a spender and the other wasn’t. When you know the couples it obvious.
Anonymous
Post 12/10/2025 22:47     Subject: Why do so many married men cheat?
Anonymous wrote:They cheat because they are married. If they weren’t married, they wouldn’t be cheating, they would be sleeping around.

Men sleep around because of biology. Men get married because they are unable to self-regulate and need women to do that work for them.


So sexist I don’t know where to begin. I’d never date a man who can’t “self-regulate”. This skill should be taught in pre-school.
Anonymous
Post 12/10/2025 22:46     Subject: Why do so many married men cheat?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I don’t know any married men who cheat, but I’m a divorced woman, and in all the divorces, I know of personally cheating was not a factor at all because it didn’t happen that wasn’t the reason for the divorce.


Unfortunately people assume women dumped their husbands because they cheated.


Most divorces happen because of finances. Second to that is infidelity - men and women. Women are usually better at hiding it.
Anonymous
Post 12/10/2025 22:40     Subject: Why do so many married men cheat?
I thought many women break marriages over cheating…
Anonymous
Post 12/10/2025 22:38     Subject: Why do so many married men cheat?
They cheat because they are married. If they weren’t married, they wouldn’t be cheating, they would be sleeping around.

Men sleep around because of biology. Men get married because they are unable to self-regulate and need women to do that work for them.
Anonymous
Post 12/10/2025 20:53     Subject: Why do so many married men cheat?
Anonymous wrote:Why do so many women KNOWINGLY have affairs with men who are STILL married? It takes two to tango...


I want to ask this question to the 82 y. o. woman who played tennis with my dad twenty five years ago.
Anonymous
Post 12/10/2025 20:34     Subject: Why do so many married men cheat?
I think people just get bored. Affairs are messed up, but certainly shakes up a monotonous life.
Anonymous
Post 12/10/2025 20:32     Subject: Re:Why do so many married men cheat?
More married women than men are cheating in some age groups now.

Times have changed.
Anonymous
Post 12/10/2025 20:29     Subject: Why do so many married men cheat?
Anonymous wrote:Why do so many women KNOWINGLY have affairs with men who are STILL married? It takes two to tango...


100%%%!

I know many women that cheated svd husbands dumped them.
Anonymous
Post 12/10/2025 20:28     Subject: Why do so many married men cheat?
Anonymous wrote:Why do so many married men cheat?


Because they can.