Anonymous
Post 12/01/2025 20:25     Subject: would your DC take a gap year if..

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Sorry, I cannot imagine any guaranteed admission to next year's freshman class, unless perhaps it's for a sports team, in which case I would balk, because managing a demanding courseload plus athletics is going to be grueling, so it would have to be a very physically healthy, mentally strong kid indeed.

And the 4 universities you cited are very different from each other. If one of them has extended an offer, does your kid love this school, and do they want to go?



I've heard that Harvard does this for large donors -- will let them in but they have to take a gap year.


This is real. My sibling attended HYPSM this way.
Anonymous
Post 12/01/2025 20:18     Subject: would your DC take a gap year if..

Anonymous wrote:Sorry, I cannot imagine any guaranteed admission to next year's freshman class, unless perhaps it's for a sports team, in which case I would balk, because managing a demanding courseload plus athletics is going to be grueling, so it would have to be a very physically healthy, mentally strong kid indeed.

And the 4 universities you cited are very different from each other. If one of them has extended an offer, does your kid love this school, and do they want to go?



I've heard that Harvard does this for large donors -- will let them in but they have to take a gap year.
Anonymous
Post 12/01/2025 18:24     Subject: would your DC take a gap year if..

Yes if guaranteed.
Anonymous
Post 12/01/2025 18:24     Subject: Re:would your DC take a gap year if..

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I know a few athletes that did it- per coach.

My son could have but I made him go on-time. There was no $ associated with doing so.


that’s interesting - why type of sporting would this work for? would have to be a winter or spring sport where senior year performance (which warranted ivy recruitment) occurred after the admission deadline..


If it’s sports related, the kid is usually required to attend boarding school for a post grad year. Op is probably talking about something donor related like the z list.


I know a lax player who exploded senior spring and shifted from Patriot League to an ivy but needed to take a gap year. Boarding school for post grad year was not required, kid just fiddled around, played much club lax, and took some CC classes


Club lax ends the summer after junior year.


Which is why most coachs require a pg year.
Anonymous
Post 12/01/2025 18:23     Subject: Re:would your DC take a gap year if..

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I know a few athletes that did it- per coach.

My son could have but I made him go on-time. There was no $ associated with doing so.


that’s interesting - why type of sporting would this work for? would have to be a winter or spring sport where senior year performance (which warranted ivy recruitment) occurred after the admission deadline..


If it’s sports related, the kid is usually required to attend boarding school for a post grad year. Op is probably talking about something donor related like the z list.


I know a lax player who exploded senior spring and shifted from Patriot League to an ivy but needed to take a gap year. Boarding school for post grad year was not required, kid just fiddled around, played much club lax, and took some CC classes


Club lax ends the summer after junior year.
Anonymous
Post 12/01/2025 18:11     Subject: Re:would your DC take a gap year if..

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I know a few athletes that did it- per coach.

My son could have but I made him go on-time. There was no $ associated with doing so.


that’s interesting - why type of sporting would this work for? would have to be a winter or spring sport where senior year performance (which warranted ivy recruitment) occurred after the admission deadline..


If it’s sports related, the kid is usually required to attend boarding school for a post grad year. Op is probably talking about something donor related like the z list.


I know a lax player who exploded senior spring and shifted from Patriot League to an ivy but needed to take a gap year. Boarding school for post grad year was not required, kid just fiddled around, played much club lax, and took some CC classes
Anonymous
Post 12/01/2025 18:01     Subject: Re:would your DC take a gap year if..

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I know a few athletes that did it- per coach.

My son could have but I made him go on-time. There was no $ associated with doing so.


that’s interesting - why type of sporting would this work for? would have to be a winter or spring sport where senior year performance (which warranted ivy recruitment) occurred after the admission deadline..


If it’s sports related, the kid is usually required to attend boarding school for a post grad year. Op is probably talking about something donor related like the z list.
Anonymous
Post 12/01/2025 17:45     Subject: would your DC take a gap year if..

sport not sporting
Anonymous
Post 12/01/2025 17:44     Subject: Re:would your DC take a gap year if..

Anonymous wrote:I know a few athletes that did it- per coach.

My son could have but I made him go on-time. There was no $ associated with doing so.


that’s interesting - why type of sporting would this work for? would have to be a winter or spring sport where senior year performance (which warranted ivy recruitment) occurred after the admission deadline..
Anonymous
Post 12/01/2025 17:42     Subject: would your DC take a gap year if..

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Anonymous wrote:it meant getting into HYPSM. Assume the non-gap option is a state flagship, and money is not an option. This is not hypothetical, and I can respect and understand if many would require more information in order to answer - but I am not providing any more info as I will doxx my kid.


No, not if the school is Princeton or MIT.

Yes, if the school is Harvard, Yale, or Stanford.


I’d say yes if Princeton or MIT and no if Harvard Yale or Stanford
Anonymous
Post 12/01/2025 17:30     Subject: would your DC take a gap year if..

Your kid got Z-listed? I think a gap year is fine if that's what they want to choose.
Anonymous
Post 12/01/2025 17:26     Subject: Re:would your DC take a gap year if..

I know a few athletes that did it- per coach.

My son could have but I made him go on-time. There was no $ associated with doing so.
Anonymous
Post 12/01/2025 17:14     Subject: would your DC take a gap year if..

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:it meant getting into HYPSM. Assume the non-gap option is a state flagship, and money is not an option. This is not hypothetical, and I can respect and understand if many would require more information in order to answer - but I am not providing any more info as I will doxx my kid.


I will bite, so this is a kid with rich/famous family but perhaps not the best stats who has been offered a spot at a HYPSM if they delay their start until the following fall (for those who don't know that is one of the ways these schools handle celebs/donor kids). I'd say take it, so long as they will be able to do the work. There are great gap year programs, just send to Patagonia to volunteer or the Island School to learn to sail for their gap year. . . .


finally a non-moronic answer - sigh..


You have a nasty attitude OP.


wasn’t me guy - but thx


Klassi response that matches the response that you disclaim. Ya ain't fooli' no one.
Anonymous
Post 12/01/2025 17:11     Subject: would your DC take a gap year if..

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:it meant getting into HYPSM. Assume the non-gap option is a state flagship, and money is not an option. This is not hypothetical, and I can respect and understand if many would require more information in order to answer - but I am not providing any more info as I will doxx my kid.


I will bite, so this is a kid with rich/famous family but perhaps not the best stats who has been offered a spot at a HYPSM if they delay their start until the following fall (for those who don't know that is one of the ways these schools handle celebs/donor kids). I'd say take it, so long as they will be able to do the work. There are great gap year programs, just send to Patagonia to volunteer or the Island School to learn to sail for their gap year. . . .


finally a non-moronic answer - sigh..


You have a nasty attitude OP.


wasn’t me guy - but thx
Anonymous
Post 12/01/2025 17:09     Subject: would your DC take a gap year if..

Anonymous wrote:it meant getting into HYPSM. Assume the non-gap option is a state flagship, and money is not an option. This is not hypothetical, and I can respect and understand if many would require more information in order to answer - but I am not providing any more info as I will doxx my kid.


No, not if the school is Princeton or MIT.

Yes, if the school is Harvard, Yale, or Stanford.