From my memories of once being an 11 yo girl, 11 yo boys have always been strange. Based on my observations since then, I don’t think they get less weird as they age, I think they just learn to cover up their weirdness to better conform to social norms.
On the other hand, girls are weird too. We just tend to be weird in different ways. Basically, humanity is a set of unique oddballs. A “normal” person would actually be an abnormality.