Anonymous
Post 11/19/2025 16:11     Subject: How to feel about my Fiance

Anonymous wrote:You all sound way too immature to be getting married. He needs to stand up for you and you need to stop being a doormat. Why on earth would you buy dinner on your birthday for some guy who is a major jerk to you? Break up and grow up for 5 more years before even thinking about getting married. Neither of you are ready.


You do sound immature.
Anonymous
Post 11/19/2025 15:43     Subject: How to feel about my Fiance

Wait what? Why are you taking them put for YOUR birthday instead of them taking YOU out?

This whole family dynamic that you've described I don't like and I think it will become an even larger problem as your relationship progresses.
Anonymous
Post 11/19/2025 15:33     Subject: How to feel about my Fiance

You should dump him. You won't, but that's what you SHOULD do.
Anonymous
Post 11/19/2025 15:27     Subject: How to feel about my Fiance

This doesn't sound like an emotionally suitable relationship for you. If you really want him then guys better move to another town so you can avoid this drama.
Anonymous
Post 11/19/2025 15:22     Subject: How to feel about my Fiance

Anonymous wrote:You all sound way too immature to be getting married. He needs to stand up for you and you need to stop being a doormat. Why on earth would you buy dinner on your birthday for some guy who is a major jerk to you? Break up and grow up for 5 more years before even thinking about getting married. Neither of you are ready.


What if she is already 41?
Anonymous
Post 11/19/2025 15:20     Subject: How to feel about my Fiance


You have a fiancé problem - End this relationship.
You can’t make those people like you.
Stop paying for their meals as a result .