Bogleheads book was best for me in terms of making me feel like I understood the big picture. The website is, IMO, unapproachable and non-intuitive and I much prefer a book with comprehensive chapters.

Like you, I already had good habits and direction and just wanted to feel more in control and confident. It is actually not that hard and there is no mystery to it!

In general, men are just generally more “confident” with money. In fact sometimes it’s this overconfidence that gets the, into trouble becuase they invest in riskier things and too much in emerging things like bitcoin.

Just becuase your husband does more with finances now doesn’t mean he should, or that he is inherently right about what to do with the money.

I really like Ramit Sethi’s YouTube channel and he had a Netflix special too.