Anonymous
12/14/2025 08:06
Subject: Single during the holidays
Get off of DCUM and spend time with your extended family
Anonymous
12/14/2025 06:54
Subject: Single during the holidays
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It's you again. Get off DCUM and give yourself the gift of therapy.
Hey….it’s YOU again.
Hey jerk have a ❤️.
Not the OP
DP. I get where the pp is coming from. OP needs to quit her complaining and wallowing and do something about it. This place is toxic and not a good place for someone in her headspace to hang out in.
Anonymous
12/14/2025 06:47
Subject: Single during the holidays
Make some friends from MENA and Asia
Anonymous
12/14/2025 01:05
Subject: Re:Single during the holidays
Surf DCUM during the holidays. You'll read plenty of unhappy DWs complaining about their DHs.
As for volunteering, while there is a flood of volunteers during this season, it's not so much on certain days like xmas itself. They may indeed need some help on days like that.
As for volunteering, while there is a flood of volunteers during this season, it's not so much on certain days like xmas itself. They may indeed need some help on days like that.
Anonymous
12/14/2025 00:22
Subject: Single during the holidays
You will be fine.
Anonymous
12/10/2025 23:45
Subject: Single during the holidays
Single and loving the holidays just as much as I love all the other days. They are all special to me.
Anonymous
12/10/2025 07:12
Subject: Re:Single during the holidays
Volunteer to help women overwhelmed by the holidays and resenting marriage.
Anonymous
12/10/2025 06:32
Subject: Single during the holidays
Spend sometime with close family members.
Anonymous
12/08/2025 22:22
Subject: Single during the holidays
ugh, guys, stop telling her to volunteer. first, that;s not a good cure for depression. why should she have to work when you guys are all having fun? second, orgs don't need volunteers flooding on holidays.
op, I get it. I am the youngest sibling in my family. I started hating the holidays in college as my siblings started getting married and having kids and I was the childless one no one gave a damn about and who was looked down on.
how old are you?
op, I get it. I am the youngest sibling in my family. I started hating the holidays in college as my siblings started getting married and having kids and I was the childless one no one gave a damn about and who was looked down on.
how old are you?
Anonymous
12/08/2025 22:16
Subject: Single during the holidays
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I suggest doing some very organized group activities. Scuba diving trip. Cooking school. Cruise. Walking tours of warm cities.
Op here. I wish I had money to do that
Volunteer. Meals on Wheels for starters but find volunteer projects every night of the week.
Anonymous
11/24/2025 06:55
Subject: Re:Single during the holidays
💔 Aww so sorry you are going through all of this right now.
And yes - - it IS tough being alone for the holidays - - especially if you have recently separated……
If you have any close family members or good friends/coworkers/neighbors/etc., ask them if you can spend some holiday time amongst them.
If not >> choose to focus on those less fortunate than yourself.
I.e., donate your time ➕ service to a local organization where you can make a difference in the lives of others.
Perhaps volunteer to cook/serve a holiday meal to the homeless or participate in a toy drive for needy children.
Putting a healthy focus on others is an excellent way to redirect the focus on yourself.
Hope this helps!!
And yes - - it IS tough being alone for the holidays - - especially if you have recently separated……
If you have any close family members or good friends/coworkers/neighbors/etc., ask them if you can spend some holiday time amongst them.
If not >> choose to focus on those less fortunate than yourself.
I.e., donate your time ➕ service to a local organization where you can make a difference in the lives of others.
Perhaps volunteer to cook/serve a holiday meal to the homeless or participate in a toy drive for needy children.
Putting a healthy focus on others is an excellent way to redirect the focus on yourself.
Hope this helps!!
Anonymous
11/22/2025 05:29
Subject: Single during the holidays
Please don’t be one of these people who want to volunteer during the holidays in a bid to make yourself feel better or to put your own problems in perspective.
If you want to make volunteering a part of your life, great. But start in February or March and do it regularly. organizations typically don’t need people who only show up at the holidays.
If you want to make volunteering a part of your life, great. But start in February or March and do it regularly. organizations typically don’t need people who only show up at the holidays.