Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:it's not crazy – every single family who could pay would say their 24-year-old cannot possibly attend without scholarships and loans if that was the case.
This. I worked at a top private law school. All the rich kids want to claim their parents aren’t helping. Doesn’t matter, their income is taken into account.
Even if it’s true that families who can afford to pay would claim that - why shouldn’t they do that? If you support your kid through college and they are a self-sufficient adult, 25 years old with no financial connection to their parents, why do we assume the parents should pay for medical school (or law school, etc.)? At what point is it ok for parents to bear no financial obligation for their kids, so that financial aid is an option? I think if a kid has been financially independent for years, there should be no attribution of parental ability to pay.
We aren’t expecting you to pay, but your kid isn’t getting need based aid either. Don’t worry - there is way less need-based aid in grad programs. It’s not like undergrad because the assumption is that the post schooling job will cover the debt. And kids of rich families are still privileged - they usually have no undergrad debt, a car is just given to them, free vacations, they often receive large monetary gifts, rent deposits, cell phones, insurance payments, etc. So just because you aren’t helping them with grad school doesn’t mean they aren’t coming from a place of privilege over a poor kid.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We paid for kid’s medical school and let me tell you it is expensive. Help them if you are able to.
+1. Schools need the parent information to determine who **genuinely** needs financial aid from the school.
They can still get their federal loans and go onto the private market for more. If you, as a parent who has the means to help chooses not to-- well, you do you.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I went to med school at age 30 , after I had been making 6 figures for a few years. They still wanted my parents financial info.
Yep same and I was married!
Anonymous wrote:What the PPs have said. Think of med and law the same. Your parents have money? You pay-- Especially after BBB. The school should have an aid advisor but the days of 250k+ student loans for med/law school are gone.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:^ My DD worked for two years after college and was not claimed as a dependent on our taxes. FAFSA still requires parental income information in order to qualify for aid. Our income was too high for her to qualify for aid, despite us believing that it’s crazy that our income mattered since she was a self-supporting adult.
it's not crazy – every single family who could pay would say their 24-year-old cannot possibly attend without scholarships and loans if that was the case.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Sorry, OP, but all professional schools look at parents' income. My kid is going to Harvard Law at $120K a year, and we are on the hook and file the FAFSA even though DS is 27. No one has mentioned it, but there is a total lifetime cap, too, of $200K, which includes previously taken undergrad loans:
Starting July 1, 2026: Professional students (for example, those in medicine, law, or similar licensure-based programs) may borrow up to $50,000 per year, with a lifetime limit of $200,000 in federal Unsubsidized Loans. Other graduate students may borrow up to $20,500 per year, with a lifetime limit of $100,000.
OP here...yes, I know all the new rules surrounding borrowing and lifetime/yearly caps on professional schools.
My DD has already filed her FAFSA...without our parental info.
Do we go back and edit the FAFSA?
Anonymous wrote:Sorry, OP, but all professional schools look at parents' income. My kid is going to Harvard Law at $120K a year, and we are on the hook and file the FAFSA even though DS is 27. No one has mentioned it, but there is a total lifetime cap, too, of $200K, which includes previously taken undergrad loans:
Starting July 1, 2026: Professional students (for example, those in medicine, law, or similar licensure-based programs) may borrow up to $50,000 per year, with a lifetime limit of $200,000 in federal Unsubsidized Loans. Other graduate students may borrow up to $20,500 per year, with a lifetime limit of $100,000.
Anonymous wrote:it's not crazy – every single family who could pay would say their 24-year-old cannot possibly attend without scholarships and loans if that was the case.
This. I worked at a top private law school. All the rich kids want to claim their parents aren’t helping. Doesn’t matter, their income is taken into account.
Even if it’s true that families who can afford to pay would claim that - why shouldn’t they do that? If you support your kid through college and they are a self-sufficient adult, 25 years old with no financial connection to their parents, why do we assume the parents should pay for medical school (or law school, etc.)? At what point is it ok for parents to bear no financial obligation for their kids, so that financial aid is an option? I think if a kid has been financially independent for years, there should be no attribution of parental ability to pay.
Anonymous wrote:it's not crazy – every single family who could pay would say their 24-year-old cannot possibly attend without scholarships and loans if that was the case.
This. I worked at a top private law school. All the rich kids want to claim their parents aren’t helping. Doesn’t matter, their income is taken into account.
Even if it’s true that families who can afford to pay would claim that - why shouldn’t they do that? If you support your kid through college and they are a self-sufficient adult, 25 years old with no financial connection to their parents, why do we assume the parents should pay for medical school (or law school, etc.)? At what point is it ok for parents to bear no financial obligation for their kids, so that financial aid is an option? I think if a kid has been financially independent for years, there should be no attribution of parental ability to pay.
Anonymous wrote:We paid for kid’s medical school and let me tell you it is expensive. Help them if you are able to.