Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I gave birth to my first 20 years ago and this was a thing then. The system sucks and women pay
The system is designed to keep women alive, and if you look over the course of history, the current one does a very very very good job. They may overprescribe c-sections but it’s 10000% better than the alternative.
When you find the solution that strikes the *perfect* balance you go ahead and let us know!
No, the system is designed for the convenience of doctors and to attempt to prevent lawsuits. It is absolutely not the goal to keep mother's and babies alive
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Fetal monitoring saved my kid’s life, so I’m fine with it.
Yeah, that's what it's for. This is the problem with people's anecdotal reactions to stuff like the OP, in my opinion. The regulations that get in the way of an ideal childbirth experience (wandering around in a dimly lit room with your selected birth posse and your playlist/meditations on repeat while doctors stay out of the way and the ghost of Ina May encourages your healthy baby out on a wave of feminist empowerment) are there to prevent a worst-case outcome. For people who benefit they can see the rationale plainly. The people who weren't close to a bad outcome can only see that they were prevented from experiencing their ideal outcome.
Doctors don't care about ideal they care about alive. As they should.
In no other area of medicine is this true. If I go in for knee replacement and have a leg amputated absolutely no one will say “yeah but your other healthy femur is all that matters”. Avoiding the worst case is literally the bare minimum expectation of medicine. It’s amazing how little you want patients to settle for when they’re only women.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Fetal monitoring saved my kid’s life, so I’m fine with it.
Yeah, that's what it's for. This is the problem with people's anecdotal reactions to stuff like the OP, in my opinion. The regulations that get in the way of an ideal childbirth experience (wandering around in a dimly lit room with your selected birth posse and your playlist/meditations on repeat while doctors stay out of the way and the ghost of Ina May encourages your healthy baby out on a wave of feminist empowerment) are there to prevent a worst-case outcome. For people who benefit they can see the rationale plainly. The people who weren't close to a bad outcome can only see that they were prevented from experiencing their ideal outcome.
Doctors don't care about ideal they care about alive. As they should.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Fetal monitoring saved my kid’s life, so I’m fine with it.
Yeah, that's what it's for. This is the problem with people's anecdotal reactions to stuff like the OP, in my opinion. The regulations that get in the way of an ideal childbirth experience (wandering around in a dimly lit room with your selected birth posse and your playlist/meditations on repeat while doctors stay out of the way and the ghost of Ina May encourages your healthy baby out on a wave of feminist empowerment) are there to prevent a worst-case outcome. For people who benefit they can see the rationale plainly. The people who weren't close to a bad outcome can only see that they were prevented from experiencing their ideal outcome.
Doctors don't care about ideal they care about alive. As they should.
Anonymous wrote:Fetal monitoring saved my kid’s life, so I’m fine with it.
Anonymous wrote:New York Times today published two articles together:
The first states that constant fetal monitoring may result in more unnecessary c-sections but that companies are trying to sell it even harder with AI features.
https://www.nytimes.com/2025/11/06/health/electronic-fetal-monitoring-c-sections.html?unlocked_article_code=1.zE8.9OGk.5ow7MgZTDhZQ&smid=url-share
The second shares that due to the rise in c-sections, there is also a rise in a complication called placenta accreta where the placenta attaches to scar tissue left by prior c-sections, increasing the risk of hemorrhaging.
https://www.nytimes.com/2025/11/06/health/placenta-accreta-c-sections.html?unlocked_article_code=1.zE8.ACSL.BuFrerSj6fvf&smid=url-share
Scary!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I gave birth to my first 20 years ago and this was a thing then. The system sucks and women pay
The system is designed to keep women alive, and if you look over the course of history, the current one does a very very very good job. They may overprescribe c-sections but it’s 10000% better than the alternative.
When you find the solution that strikes the *perfect* balance you go ahead and let us know!
This.
People find the smallest things to obsess and worry about.
"OMuhgEHrd! a 1% increase in risk! It's the end of the world!"
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I gave birth to my first 20 years ago and this was a thing then. The system sucks and women pay
The system is designed to keep women alive, and if you look over the course of history, the current one does a very very very good job. They may overprescribe c-sections but it’s 10000% better than the alternative.
When you find the solution that strikes the *perfect* balance you go ahead and let us know!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I gave birth to my first 20 years ago and this was a thing then. The system sucks and women pay
The system is designed to keep women alive, and if you look over the course of history, the current one does a very very very good job. They may overprescribe c-sections but it’s 10000% better than the alternative.
When you find the solution that strikes the *perfect* balance you go ahead and let us know!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I gave birth to my first 20 years ago and this was a thing then. The system sucks and women pay
The system is designed to keep women alive, and if you look over the course of history, the current one does a very very very good job. They may overprescribe c-sections but it’s 10000% better than the alternative.
When you find the solution that strikes the *perfect* balance you go ahead and let us know!
Anonymous wrote:I too hated mine. Couldn’t move.
My biggest issue was the impatience of the nurses and doctor. I had super long labors. 3 of them. I mean 2 plus days in the hospital on pitocin. They threatened c section almost hourly. But in the end, when baby had finally descended, I pushed the babies out in 45 min or so. No issues pushing.
Why all the threatening about c sections??? I hear so many moms say they have c sections for failure to progress and I think they just didn’t wait long enough.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I gave birth to my first 20 years ago and this was a thing then. The system sucks and women pay
The system is designed to keep women alive, and if you look over the course of history, the current one does a very very very good job. They may overprescribe c-sections but it’s 10000% better than the alternative.
When you find the solution that strikes the *perfect* balance you go ahead and let us know!
Anonymous wrote:I gave birth to my first 20 years ago and this was a thing then. The system sucks and women pay