Anonymous wrote:Couple of thoughts:
A bunch of Jesuit schools might work: St. Joe's, Scranton, Loyola
Virginia's private schools: Lynchburg, Roanoke, Shenandoah
Non-flagship state schools: Salisbury, Towson, and PA schools like Westchester, Millersville, East Stroudsburg
+1 on the Jesuit schools (if you and she are open to Jesuit)
All three have good communities / supportive alumni networks and a more broad identity, in my opinion, than Westchester / Millersville (which are lovely schools but more local)
If she wants to look farther, Marquette (though it might be a reach) and Loyola Chicago are more ideas.
Marist (Catholic but not Jesuit) has a great supportive community too, and if she's interested in politics, their polling center brings excitement.
I realize that not all families are comfortable with Catholic schools! They are the ones I know best, though, and I think many do a great job of forging community and identity without national prestige/ high selectivity.