Anonymous
Post 10/23/2025 10:27     Subject: How often do you shower with your partner?
Anonymous wrote:No shower but taking a bath together is good for spousal intimacy


Not if both of you are above average height.Then it's just uncomfortable
Anonymous
Post 10/23/2025 10:18     Subject: Re:How often do you shower with your partner?
Anonymous wrote:Ahh the "adventurous" crowd that is DCUM.



LMFAO, true!
Anonymous
Post 10/23/2025 07:05     Subject: How often do you shower with your partner?
A few times a year.
The last time we did that was several
months ago for a week long. Sometimes we have sex in the shower. Sometimes just wash up and sex after.
Anonymous
Post 10/22/2025 13:00     Subject: How often do you shower with your partner?
It's not about not being adventurous, it's just one of those things that's better in theory than reality.
Anonymous
Post 10/22/2025 11:12     Subject: Re:How often do you shower with your partner?
Ahh the "adventurous" crowd that is DCUM.
Anonymous
Post 10/22/2025 10:58     Subject: How often do you shower with your partner?
Once a decade or so.
Anonymous
Post 10/22/2025 10:53     Subject: How often do you shower with your partner?
Anonymous wrote:With my exH, never. But I often jump I the shower with my boyfriend because I like the intimacy of it. Usually it’s just an overlapping, he’s finishing up and about to get out and I jump in and then he leaves.


This is us. About once a week we'll overlap. And maybe once a month that overlap will get ... steamy.
Anonymous
Post 10/22/2025 09:45     Subject: How often do you shower with your partner?
No shower but taking a bath together is good for spousal intimacy
Anonymous
Post 10/22/2025 02:28     Subject: Re:How often do you shower with your partner?
Very occasionally - - I am a Female who prefers to shower alone.

I like to take my time conditioning my hair, shaving my legs, etc. and I prefer to do these things in solitude.
Anonymous
Post 10/22/2025 01:19     Subject: How often do you shower with your partner?
Anonymous wrote:This is one of the most overrated romantic activities.


Totally. Just so impractical and basically only sexy in porn. We feel the same so...never.
Anonymous
Post 10/21/2025 22:30     Subject: How often do you shower with your partner?
I hate this. Do it occasionally just to be nice to DH. I am always cold!
Anonymous
Post 10/21/2025 20:54     Subject: How often do you shower with your partner?
Men love this. Women generally know it’s overrated.

I don’t need a man to watch me while I scrub my bathing suit area. And I don’t want to share the hot water/get lather splashed in my face.
Anonymous
Post 10/21/2025 20:49     Subject: How often do you shower with your partner?
Dh. I like the intimacy of it. Only having one shower head makes you closer. We don’t have sex, but the washing each other is foreplay, and we have sex afterwards. This is about once a week
Anonymous
Post 10/21/2025 19:52     Subject: How often do you shower with your partner?
Anonymous wrote:Maybe once a week? I don’t really like it, but he loves it and would shower together every day if it was up to him.

TBH a big part of why I don’t like it is I usually poop before I shower, and it’s tough to feel sexy after that, ha.

What does help is when he turns it into pampering me. So he’ll wash me, wrap me in a towel, then spend 20 minutes putting lotion all over my body. Otherwise I don’t really see the point of us individually scrubbing our buttcracks or whatever in the same shower.


Is this for real??

Anonymous
Post 10/21/2025 19:50     Subject: How often do you shower with your partner?
This is one of the most overrated romantic activities.