Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Men of all heights who are insecure prefer small women. It makes them feel more powerful.
With my amendment, this is true.
I'm 5'4", so not super short, but I'm slim and was especially tiny in my 20s. I dated guys of all heights. Some of them were VERY into how little I was. At first it was kind of flattering, it's nice to be physically pleasing to your partner. But it started to bother me. These guys seemed to get off on being much bigger and stronger than me. Like my relative weakness turned them on. That's messed up.
It become a dealbreaker for me. I didn't want to be doted on like a child, I wanted a man who would see me as his equal, irrespective of our relative size. I wound up marrying a man who is 5'11" and could care less, and has never once made a big thing out of me being shorter or smaller than him.
I find this kind of language regressive and kind of gross from men.