Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:He is a senior and struggling a bit with high level math. But also not really that interested in soft subjects. His is a very good kid but his only current true “passions” are cars, his sports, and working out.
Should he even go to college?
Should we just send him anyway to LAC and let him figure it out? Unprepped SAT 1380, too late to prep now obviously.
SAT doesn't decide major only the school; send him to CC and let him figure it out there, set him up with job that has a path to his dream job. He'll quickly figure out what he needs to become a CEO. CC has a guaranteed admission to state flag ship schools that isn't determined by the SAT.
LAC only if you can lose $90K and wouldn't notice even then I'd worry.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:What are his grades like? Unweighted GPA?
No EC leadership?
Favorite subjects?
Public or private HS?
UW 3.8, 8 IB classes
High level participation in sports with leadership experience
Doesn’t seem to have a favorite subject, how he feels about a class seems to depend more on how well he connects to teacher and other students in the class.
Public school
Are you full pay?
Wake ED?
WashU has an interesting sports leadership program - and both are really test-optional.
Otherwise, yes to SLACs.
Are his best grades in humanities or sciences? It would be helpful if he's aiming for competitive schools to help him frame his story just a bit (e.g., picking sociology as a major given sports etc might make sense, knowing its just a way to read his entire application).
If WashU, this is the minor: https://olin.washu.edu/programs/bs-business-administration/majors-minors/business-of-sports.php
Also, for anyone whose kid is applying to WashU, they are really into leadership development these days:
https://www.insidehighered.com/news/student-success/life-after-college/2024/04/11/washu-embedding-leadership-ed-student-experience
Anonymous wrote:What is LAC? What is CC?
DC is a bubble. I grew up in NC in a city of 350,000 and my 1410 SAT score was the 2nd highest in the city my graduation year.
That said, your son can absolutely go to college and doesn’t have to know his life plans in full…but I think he needs career counseling to figure it out.
Is his car interest in repairing them? There are high paying jobs like being an airplane mechanic. There are science careers that don’t require being a math superstar where being above average would work - mechanical, civil or environmental engineering. You have to take and do well in a lot of math classes for sure, but being a top 10-20% math student can get you through.
Or being a people person who is organized and can get sh*t done can be all kinds of project management in construction, engineering, shipping, trades, etc. Or the sales option in a variety of industries…consulting, pharmaceuticals, etc etc
Anonymous wrote:I think your perspective has been completely warped by DCUM.
Those are GOOD grades and test scores. He doesn't have to decide his major now. Have you started visiting schools? There are HUNDREDS that would offer him merit aid for those scores. Since he's unsure, you could always send him to a reasonably-priced state school (not sure where you are), but there are also many privates with a wide range of majors. I'm not getting a picture of what your kid likes or wants, but he should have many options.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:What are his grades like? Unweighted GPA?
No EC leadership?
Favorite subjects?
Public or private HS?
UW 3.8, 8 IB classes
High level participation in sports with leadership experience
Doesn’t seem to have a favorite subject, how he feels about a class seems to depend more on how well he connects to teacher and other students in the class.
Public school
Are you full pay?
Wake ED?
WashU has an interesting sports leadership program - and both are really test-optional.
Otherwise, yes to SLACs.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:What are his grades like? Unweighted GPA?
No EC leadership?
Favorite subjects?
Public or private HS?
UW 3.8, 8 IB classes
High level participation in sports with leadership experience
Doesn’t seem to have a favorite subject, how he feels about a class seems to depend more on how well he connects to teacher and other students in the class.
Public school
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:What are his grades like? Unweighted GPA?
No EC leadership?
Favorite subjects?
Public or private HS?
UW 3.8, 8 IB classes
High level participation in sports with leadership experience
Doesn’t seem to have a favorite subject, how he feels about a class seems to depend more on how well he connects to teacher and other students in the class.
Public school
What makes you wonder if he should even go to college? He seems to be a strong student. UW 3.8, IB classes, a 1380 SAT. If you were striving for an Ivy, I would say it would probably be difficult but otherwise, he would be a strong applicant for the majority of the remaining colleges/universities. I'm honestly bewildered why you don't think he's college material.
It just seems that other kids have more pointed interests or passion in academic subjects or know what they want to do.
We aren’t wealthy either, don’t have lots of connections. Both parents are feds who worked their way up the ladder, and DS has been in kind of a bubble not being able to see what all is out there in terms of careers.
I hope good colleges would help with that, but his dad and I both were first gen students who graduated with debt but no real help getting launched into a career, and I don’t want that for DC. At least we are in a position to pay for DC to attend without accruing debt.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:What are his grades like? Unweighted GPA?
No EC leadership?
Favorite subjects?
Public or private HS?
UW 3.8, 8 IB classes
High level participation in sports with leadership experience
Doesn’t seem to have a favorite subject, how he feels about a class seems to depend more on how well he connects to teacher and other students in the class.
Public school
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:He is a senior and struggling a bit with high level math. But also not really that interested in soft subjects. His is a very good kid but his only current true “passions” are cars, his sports, and working out.
Should he even go to college?
Should we just send him anyway to LAC and let him figure it out? Unprepped SAT 1380, too late to prep now obviously.
Stop. He has a 1380 which is in the 92nd percentile and you're wondering if he should even go to college? Is this real? I swear, some of you DCUMers are so delusional.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:What are his grades like? Unweighted GPA?
No EC leadership?
Favorite subjects?
Public or private HS?
UW 3.8, 8 IB classes
High level participation in sports with leadership experience
Doesn’t seem to have a favorite subject, how he feels about a class seems to depend more on how well he connects to teacher and other students in the class.
Public school
Tell him to pick a major that is interesting to him right now. There's a high chance he'll change his mind. Most college students do, and that's okay. He can also go undecided; but please don't suggest that he doesn't go to college because at age 17 or 18, he doesn't know what he wants to do.
What makes you wonder if he should even go to college? He seems to be a strong student. UW 3.8, IB classes, a 1380 SAT. If you were striving for an Ivy, I would say it would probably be difficult but otherwise, he would be a strong applicant for the majority of the remaining colleges/universities. I'm honestly bewildered why you don't think he's college material.
It just seems that other kids have more pointed interests or passion in academic subjects or know what they want to do.
We aren’t wealthy either, don’t have lots of connections. Both parents are feds who worked their way up the ladder, and DS has been in kind of a bubble not being able to see what all is out there in terms of careers.
I hope good colleges would help with that, but his dad and I both were first gen students who graduated with debt but no real help getting launched into a career, and I don’t want that for DC. At least we are in a position to pay for DC to attend without accruing debt.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:What are his grades like? Unweighted GPA?
No EC leadership?
Favorite subjects?
Public or private HS?
UW 3.8, 8 IB classes
High level participation in sports with leadership experience
Doesn’t seem to have a favorite subject, how he feels about a class seems to depend more on how well he connects to teacher and other students in the class.
Public school
What makes you wonder if he should even go to college? He seems to be a strong student. UW 3.8, IB classes, a 1380 SAT. If you were striving for an Ivy, I would say it would probably be difficult but otherwise, he would be a strong applicant for the majority of the remaining colleges/universities. I'm honestly bewildered why you don't think he's college material.