Anonymous
09/28/2025 01:23
Subject: Are people okay with losing friends over politics
I’m suspicious that OP is a troll. No one is this naive and clueless. Oh wait… lack of education and brewing hate is what got us here.
Anonymous
09/28/2025 00:45
Subject: Are people okay with losing friends over politics
Anonymous wrote:We’re the kind of parents who don’t really care much about who wins elections. We did vote for Trump, but either way it wasn’t a big deal to us. My daughter, however, was very upset when she found out. She’s glad we live in a very blue state. We knew he wasn't going to win Maryland.
This why we can't tell anyone who we voted for....
Her best friend has some Trump flags in her room, and now my daughter doesn’t want to be friends with her anymore because of it. I told her that it should be okay—that differences in political views shouldn’t end a friendship, especially since they’ve been close friends since kindergarten.
The girl is also losing many of her friends for the same reason. I even spoke with her mom. Most of the friend group is Latinas, so SHE NOT RACIST. but they keep telling she likes a "PDF" and a racist. m
How can I help my daughter understand that it’s okay to have different views, and how can I help the kids stop treating her friend this way?
Do you have a lot of friends that have different political views?
I would question being friends with any kid in k-12 that has a flag or poster of any politician of any persuasion. Like succumbing to the machinations of a cult of personality. Sounds really indoctrinated and/or a poser. Like having a portrait of Kim Jong Un in every room of your house.
Anonymous
09/28/2025 00:37
Subject: Are people okay with losing friends over politics
So you're OK if I, a research scientist who has worked on cancer, gets detained and is forced to sleep on the floor and not get my daily medication (which might kill me), just because I am waiting for a green card? I have paid all my taxes, I've obeyed the law, my immigration status is LEGAL, and yet there are people like me who have been detained for weeks or months, mistreated and deported. Some of them have been released after their ordeal, with nary an apology.
You also voted for the abrupt cancellation of USAID, the stoppage of which has already killed HIV-infected infants in South Africa. Millions more vulnerable people across the world are predicted to die until 2030 if aid is not reinstated.This was American soft power and diplomacy, OP - the world order was American because the USA was the great helper of the world. Helping people not die will get you loyalty and peace on your terms. You are ceding that power to China, a repressive state that punishes dissidents systematically, and who wishes to remake the world in its image. Are you OK with that? Your quality of life and those of your children and grandchildren will decrease dramatically once the US has been supplanted as the arbiter on the world stage.
Americans who were in NIH-funded clinical trials have also been severely impacted, and their trials halted while treatment was ongoing. Some of them will die. Trump is waging a war against the federal government, and part of the government is composed of researchers who discover cures for cancer, Alzheimer's, heart disease, diabetes, etc.
I am talking about deaths; severe injury; or severe change in life circumstances for non-violent foreigners with valid immigration status who are detained or deported.
The burden of shame and blame borne by Trump voters is ENORMOUS.
And yet I still talk to one old man who voted for Trump... the more I talk to him, the more I persuade him that his support was misplaced.
I hope you see the error of your ways. You have hurt so many innocent people in the world.
You also voted for the abrupt cancellation of USAID, the stoppage of which has already killed HIV-infected infants in South Africa. Millions more vulnerable people across the world are predicted to die until 2030 if aid is not reinstated.This was American soft power and diplomacy, OP - the world order was American because the USA was the great helper of the world. Helping people not die will get you loyalty and peace on your terms. You are ceding that power to China, a repressive state that punishes dissidents systematically, and who wishes to remake the world in its image. Are you OK with that? Your quality of life and those of your children and grandchildren will decrease dramatically once the US has been supplanted as the arbiter on the world stage.
Americans who were in NIH-funded clinical trials have also been severely impacted, and their trials halted while treatment was ongoing. Some of them will die. Trump is waging a war against the federal government, and part of the government is composed of researchers who discover cures for cancer, Alzheimer's, heart disease, diabetes, etc.
I am talking about deaths; severe injury; or severe change in life circumstances for non-violent foreigners with valid immigration status who are detained or deported.
The burden of shame and blame borne by Trump voters is ENORMOUS.
And yet I still talk to one old man who voted for Trump... the more I talk to him, the more I persuade him that his support was misplaced.
I hope you see the error of your ways. You have hurt so many innocent people in the world.
Anonymous
09/28/2025 00:26
Subject: Are people okay with losing friends over politics
Vicious…
Anonymous
09/28/2025 00:18
Subject: Are people okay with losing friends over politics
I actually feel bad for you OP. I can tell you were sincere with your post, but the people on here are viscous.
Anonymous
09/27/2025 23:21
Subject: Are people okay with losing friends over politics
There are at least two kinds of Trump voters, including the cruel and the stupid/ignorant. Op, which do you fall under? I could forgive the latter, not the former.
Anonymous
09/27/2025 23:09
Subject: Re:Are people okay with losing friends over politics
I have very limited contact with my parents who voted for Trump and I definitely have dropped former friends who voted for him. How people vote is now a reflection of their moral fiber and I don’t associate with amoral individuals.
Anonymous
09/27/2025 22:59
Subject: Are people okay with losing friends over politics
Politics and “views” are very different now. It’s not just fiscal conservatism etc. If I learn that someone voted for Trump in this last election I know that they are: OK with the Jan 6 attempt at insurrection, OK with Project 2025, OK with racism and homophobia and misogyny, OK with our president being a sexual assaulter, etc. So no, I would no longer want to be friends with you.
Anonymous
09/27/2025 22:46
Subject: Are people okay with losing friends over politics
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We’re the kind of parents who don’t really care much about who wins elections. We did vote for Trump, but either way it wasn’t a big deal to us. My daughter, however, was very upset when she found out. She’s glad we live in a very blue state. We knew he wasn't going to win Maryland.
This why we can't tell anyone who we voted for....
Her best friend has some Trump flags in her room, and now my daughter doesn’t want to be friends with her anymore because of it. I told her that it should be okay—that differences in political views shouldn’t end a friendship, especially since they’ve been close friends since kindergarten.
The girl is also losing many of her friends for the same reason. I even spoke with her mom. Most of the friend group is Latinas, so SHE NOT RACIST. but they keep telling she likes a "PDF" and a racist. m
How can I help my daughter understand that it’s okay to have different views, and how can I help the kids stop treating her friend this way?
Do you have a lot of friends that have different political views?
You made a choice to be a stealth Trump supporter to avoid any blowback. Your DD’s friend chose to support him openly and accept any social consequences. She’s either very brave or likes being a sh!t stirrer. I think you should reach out to her and let her know that she’s not alone.
Encourage your dd to be kind and to treat others with dignity and respect. She can choose who she wants to be friends with. If she no longer feels compatible with this longtime friend, the relationship may have run its course. She should not be mean to the other girl, but she’s not obligated to remain friends forever.
There is no need to be kind to MAGAS. MAGAS are cancer and cut them out of your life so you don't become infected with their racism and lies.
Anonymous
09/27/2025 22:41
Subject: Are people okay with losing friends over politics
Anonymous wrote:We’re the kind of parents who don’t really care much about who wins elections. We did vote for Trump, but either way it wasn’t a big deal to us. My daughter, however, was very upset when she found out. She’s glad we live in a very blue state. We knew he wasn't going to win Maryland.
This why we can't tell anyone who we voted for....
Her best friend has some Trump flags in her room, and now my daughter doesn’t want to be friends with her anymore because of it. I told her that it should be okay—that differences in political views shouldn’t end a friendship, especially since they’ve been close friends since kindergarten.
The girl is also losing many of her friends for the same reason. I even spoke with her mom. Most of the friend group is Latinas, so SHE NOT RACIST. but they keep telling she likes a "PDF" and a racist. m
How can I help my daughter understand that it’s okay to have different views, and how can I help the kids stop treating her friend this way?
Do you have a lot of friends that have different political views?
If you voted for trump then you are racist. Otherwise , why would you vote for him? Your daughter doesn't need you to tell her anything.
Anonymous
09/27/2025 22:40
Subject: Re:Are people okay with losing friends over politics
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I’m not losing friends, I’m losing relatives who cheer on my husband and I losing our federal jobs while they— retirees— sit smug all comfy with their —throat clear—public sector pensions. If they live long enough they’ll spend more years collecting than they had actually worked in those jobs.
I think Trump has ruined more families than anything else since the civil war. Friends and I have taken a poll and the vast majority of families with 3 or more kids has at least one sibling estranged over politics. It seems like more MAGA have pulled away, except in DH’s family his gay brother pulled away from his MAGA brother in the first term.
The rot started with Fox News. Trump just poured gasoline on the embers.
And now they own CNN, CBS, ABC, Facebook, WAPO, Los Angeles Times, Instagram l, Wall Street Journal, and soon Tik Tok. Their claims of liberal media is an outright lie.
Anonymous
09/27/2025 22:34
Subject: Re:Are people okay with losing friends over politics
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I’m not losing friends, I’m losing relatives who cheer on my husband and I losing our federal jobs while they— retirees— sit smug all comfy with their —throat clear—public sector pensions. If they live long enough they’ll spend more years collecting than they had actually worked in those jobs.
I think Trump has ruined more families than anything else since the civil war. Friends and I have taken a poll and the vast majority of families with 3 or more kids has at least one sibling estranged over politics. It seems like more MAGA have pulled away, except in DH’s family his gay brother pulled away from his MAGA brother in the first term.
The rot started with Fox News. Trump just poured gasoline on the embers.
Anonymous
09/27/2025 22:30
Subject: Are people okay with losing friends over politics
Anonymous wrote:The bigger problem than simply losing friends is that this mindset comes with a dehumanization of the other side—"It's about their morals, not simply politics"—which leads to the political violence that is becoming a hallmark of the left.
Meh. I can judge you as immoral and amoral and not hurt you. Disliking someone doesn’t lead to violence for normal people.
Anonymous
09/27/2025 22:27
Subject: Are people okay with losing friends over politics
I don’t think you’re being sincere.
But I’ll risk feeding the troll just this once.
Yes, it worth losing friends over. MAGA is a hate cult and I don’t want to be friends with people who are that incurious, racist, anti-democracy, anti-American, sadistic, and pro-fascism and corruption.
We have nothing in common. No need to try to salvage a friendship.
But I’ll risk feeding the troll just this once.
Yes, it worth losing friends over. MAGA is a hate cult and I don’t want to be friends with people who are that incurious, racist, anti-democracy, anti-American, sadistic, and pro-fascism and corruption.
We have nothing in common. No need to try to salvage a friendship.
Anonymous
09/27/2025 22:25
Subject: Are people okay with losing friends over politics
Anonymous wrote:We’re the kind of parents who don’t really care much about who wins elections. We did vote for Trump, but either way it wasn’t a big deal to us. My daughter, however, was very upset when she found out. She’s glad we live in a very blue state. We knew he wasn't going to win Maryland.
This why we can't tell anyone who we voted for....
Her best friend has some Trump flags in her room, and now my daughter doesn’t want to be friends with her anymore because of it. I told her that it should be okay—that differences in political views shouldn’t end a friendship, especially since they’ve been close friends since kindergarten.
The girl is also losing many of her friends for the same reason. I even spoke with her mom. Most of the friend group is Latinas, so SHE NOT RACIST. but they keep telling she likes a "PDF" and a racist. m
How can I help my daughter understand that it’s okay to have different views, and how can I help the kids stop treating her friend this way?
Do you have a lot of friends that have different political views? I did before 2016. Our discussions were quite hearty and we could agree to disagree, and sometimes come to agreements or at least understanding of the others’ positions. Not now. Ain’t no way would I consider anyone who votes republican a friend. I don’t want to be in the same room with such a person.