I once read that most women find most men unattractive. Anecdotally, I have seen more hot women with very unattractive men. Now I can't say if it's common, but I just noticed that I am more likely to see a hot woman with a man let's just say it nicely not attractive lol.

NEWS FLASH!!! NEWS FLASH!!! - It appears that this poster has found that women marry men for reasons other than the man's attractiveness. Our brave poster was able to discern this incredible fact via years of painstaking research. /s

These types of posts (e.g., is your DH/DW as "hot" as when you met them?) become backdoors for certain women to post about how there are no attractive men their age (or at any age) or how much more appealing they are than their DH.

That might be true. I believe that there are vastly more beautiful women than men at every age. However, rational people realize that it is the relative attractiveness of one person compared to their peer group that is the determinative factor in dating.

Notice how many women have posted in this thread (and in many others) that they are still "hot." Maybe, but this is only important if you are hotter than your peer group.

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Anonymous wrote:Rare for people aged 40s and up to be hot, TBH.

We're both just OK. I married my husband for his personality and how he treats me, not for his looks.

DC is the ugliest area of the country. I think if you go to other areas you'll find you are wrong about that.

I always wonder about these threads. Where are all these extremely hot men??? I do not see them in DC.

Midwest

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Rare for people aged 40s and up to be hot, TBH.

We're both just OK. I married my husband for his personality and how he treats me, not for his looks.

DC is the ugliest area of the country. I think if you go to other areas you'll find you are wrong about that.

I always wonder about these threads. Where are all these extremely hot men??? I do not see them in DC.

Hot is extremely subjective.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Rare for people aged 40s and up to be hot, TBH.

We're both just OK. I married my husband for his personality and how he treats me, not for his looks.

DC is the ugliest area of the country. I think if you go to other areas you'll find you are wrong about that.

I always wonder about these threads. Where are all these extremely hot men??? I do not see them in DC.

My husband just turned 50. He is still as hot as his 20s. His dedication to fitness, meditation and diet has clearly paid off. Most importantly he is the most amazing and interesting man I have ever seen. I can say with 100% certainly if he were to pass away right now I'll remain single for the rest of my life.

I'm not as attractive him, but he treats me and reminds as if I were more attractive than him.

I once read that most women find most men unattractive. Anecdotally, I have seen more hot women with very unattractive men. Now I can't say if it's common, but I just noticed that I am more likely to see a hot woman with a man let's just say it nicely not attractive lol.

Anonymous wrote:Rare for people aged 40s and up to be hot, TBH.

We're both just OK. I married my husband for his personality and how he treats me, not for his looks.

DC is the ugliest area of the country. I think if you go to other areas you'll find you are wrong about that.

No, and I’ve never thought he was. He was cute enough, smart, funny and kind. He’s less cute than he was, but our sex life is still good and I still really enjoy spending time with him. I’m almost 47, he’s 45.

Rare for people aged 40s and up to be hot, TBH.

We're both just OK. I married my husband for his personality and how he treats me, not for his looks.

You know how women say they’re perceived as “cute but not pretty?” I think my husband is the masculine version of this. Like he’s cute, he has really nice features, but he hasn’t kept his body “hot,” so I can’t classify him as hot.

He’s hot to me. I’m not hot, but he seems fine with it. I’m fine with it.

Anonymous wrote:Not super hot but he TURNS me ONNNNN

Damn right!

For our ages….old…he’s pretty hot and I’m in a slow decline. To be honest, I was always the very pretty girl next door type but I was never hot and never tried to be.

Not super hot but he TURNS me ONNNNN

Hot mess, yes yes!