Anonymous wrote:jAnonymous wrote:Isn’t the school play an extracurricular activity if the daughter isn’t taking it as a class? I don’t think 504s cover extracurricular activities.
If it happens at school or on the school bus, even if it is before, after or during lunch, it is/can be covered by a 504. For example, a school play director might give a child more time to learn lines, let them use a small cue card for longer than others, direct them to an audio recording of the play, etc.
Why is it covered by a 504? It's happening on school property, with the support of school personnel.
https://www.wrightslaw.com/info/sec504.afterschool.crabtree.htmlf
The only question in the 504 scenario is what constitutes a "reasonable accommodation"?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:As a mom of a theater kid with anxiety, I can assure you that MANY theater kids have anxiety and many of them perform not as well at auditions due to nerves. My dd doesn’t have anxiety during a show after months of rehearsals, but auditions are terrible for her. You know what helped? Doing more auditions. Preparing. Getting older.
If your daughter knows you told the director about the 504, she might not feel that she actually earned a spot. Don’t take that away from her. Maybe she’ll be small parts for now, ensemble roles, background, tech crew. If she thinks she got a pity role or mommy intervened, it may not help her manage her anxiety, it may do the exact opposite of what you hope for.
Excellent points. Anxiety is not treated with accommodation.
Accommodations aren’t treatments for any condition. They are tools that help people access environments and activities.
Let me clarify - accommodations are counter-therapeutic for anxiety. They make it worse. A kid with therapy so severe that it impacts school (like school refusal) should have an IEP and the goals should be exposure (gradual if called for) not accommodation.
Gradual exposure would be an accommodation.
Hard to imagine what that means in the context of theater auditions, though.
jAnonymous wrote:Isn’t the school play an extracurricular activity if the daughter isn’t taking it as a class? I don’t think 504s cover extracurricular activities.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:As a mom of a theater kid with anxiety, I can assure you that MANY theater kids have anxiety and many of them perform not as well at auditions due to nerves. My dd doesn’t have anxiety during a show after months of rehearsals, but auditions are terrible for her. You know what helped? Doing more auditions. Preparing. Getting older.
If your daughter knows you told the director about the 504, she might not feel that she actually earned a spot. Don’t take that away from her. Maybe she’ll be small parts for now, ensemble roles, background, tech crew. If she thinks she got a pity role or mommy intervened, it may not help her manage her anxiety, it may do the exact opposite of what you hope for.
+1.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:As a mom of a theater kid with anxiety, I can assure you that MANY theater kids have anxiety and many of them perform not as well at auditions due to nerves. My dd doesn’t have anxiety during a show after months of rehearsals, but auditions are terrible for her. You know what helped? Doing more auditions. Preparing. Getting older.
If your daughter knows you told the director about the 504, she might not feel that she actually earned a spot. Don’t take that away from her. Maybe she’ll be small parts for now, ensemble roles, background, tech crew. If she thinks she got a pity role or mommy intervened, it may not help her manage her anxiety, it may do the exact opposite of what you hope for.
Excellent points. Anxiety is not treated with accommodation.
Accommodations aren’t treatments for any condition. They are tools that help people access environments and activities.
Let me clarify - accommodations are counter-therapeutic for anxiety. They make it worse. A kid with therapy so severe that it impacts school (like school refusal) should have an IEP and the goals should be exposure (gradual if called for) not accommodation.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:As a mom of a theater kid with anxiety, I can assure you that MANY theater kids have anxiety and many of them perform not as well at auditions due to nerves. My dd doesn’t have anxiety during a show after months of rehearsals, but auditions are terrible for her. You know what helped? Doing more auditions. Preparing. Getting older.
If your daughter knows you told the director about the 504, she might not feel that she actually earned a spot. Don’t take that away from her. Maybe she’ll be small parts for now, ensemble roles, background, tech crew. If she thinks she got a pity role or mommy intervened, it may not help her manage her anxiety, it may do the exact opposite of what you hope for.
Excellent points. Anxiety is not treated with accommodation.
Accommodations aren’t treatments for any condition. They are tools that help people access environments and activities.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:As a mom of a theater kid with anxiety, I can assure you that MANY theater kids have anxiety and many of them perform not as well at auditions due to nerves. My dd doesn’t have anxiety during a show after months of rehearsals, but auditions are terrible for her. You know what helped? Doing more auditions. Preparing. Getting older.
If your daughter knows you told the director about the 504, she might not feel that she actually earned a spot. Don’t take that away from her. Maybe she’ll be small parts for now, ensemble roles, background, tech crew. If she thinks she got a pity role or mommy intervened, it may not help her manage her anxiety, it may do the exact opposite of what you hope for.
Excellent points. Anxiety is not treated with accommodation.
Is it too much to communicate with the coach at my child’s school about my child’s 504? DC has not played soccer before but tried out for the team, so the teacher is probably unaware of the 504 and I feel like she should take into account that she will have been anxious during the tryouts which the coach should take into account when forming the team.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:As a mom of a theater kid with anxiety, I can assure you that MANY theater kids have anxiety and many of them perform not as well at auditions due to nerves. My dd doesn’t have anxiety during a show after months of rehearsals, but auditions are terrible for her. You know what helped? Doing more auditions. Preparing. Getting older.
If your daughter knows you told the director about the 504, she might not feel that she actually earned a spot. Don’t take that away from her. Maybe she’ll be small parts for now, ensemble roles, background, tech crew. If she thinks she got a pity role or mommy intervened, it may not help her manage her anxiety, it may do the exact opposite of what you hope for.
Excellent points. Anxiety is not treated with accommodation.
Anonymous wrote:As a mom of a theater kid with anxiety, I can assure you that MANY theater kids have anxiety and many of them perform not as well at auditions due to nerves. My dd doesn’t have anxiety during a show after months of rehearsals, but auditions are terrible for her. You know what helped? Doing more auditions. Preparing. Getting older.
If your daughter knows you told the director about the 504, she might not feel that she actually earned a spot. Don’t take that away from her. Maybe she’ll be small parts for now, ensemble roles, background, tech crew. If she thinks she got a pity role or mommy intervened, it may not help her manage her anxiety, it may do the exact opposite of what you hope for.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Isn’t the school play an extracurricular activity if the daughter isn’t taking it as a class? I don’t think 504s cover extracurricular activities.
504s do cover extracurriculars if those extracurriculars benefit from federal funds, such as taking place in a public school building.
If a kid has a 504 accommodation that applies during, such as permission for a kid with T1D to carry snacks and a phone connected to their glucose monitor, or large print scripts for a student with a vision impairment.
If OP’s kid has an accommodation that would apply as opposed to something like extra time on tests or copy of a teacher’s notes which aren’t relevant, then they should get that accommodation. But 504’s don’t change grading, kids are held to the same standard, and my guess is that the audition will be held to the same standard.
Anonymous wrote:Isn’t the school play an extracurricular activity if the daughter isn’t taking it as a class? I don’t think 504s cover extracurricular activities.