Anonymous
Post 09/16/2025 18:29     Subject: Re:Have you ever hooked up with someone much younger or older?

Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:yes, 17 and 45. Actually, much more than hooked up. Yes, it was really messed up.


Yes. If you were the 17 year old I'm sorry that happened to you. If you were the 45 year old you're disgusting and I hope you rot in hell.


Sorry but they're both disgusting. I've known teen girls who went after married older men for fun/to tempt/ to crush on. Going as far as traveling miles to see them.


Go eff yourself. I was a 17 year old child. He was a 45 year old horny bastard to lied about everytthing he could including his age. 45 year old men can’t be seduced by children. They have agency.


Oh please. 17 years old is not a child. A minor, yes, but not a child.


You know what she means.
Anonymous
Post 09/16/2025 18:28     Subject: Have you ever hooked up with someone much younger or older?

Anonymous wrote:One time in my mid twenties I hooked up with a 40 year old kick boxing instructor who was really hot but was totally turned off by the gray body hair


What? gray pubes don't do it for you? what about now that you have them?
Anonymous
Post 09/16/2025 18:26     Subject: Re:Have you ever hooked up with someone much younger or older?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:yes, 17 and 45. Actually, much more than hooked up. Yes, it was really messed up.


Yes. If you were the 17 year old I'm sorry that happened to you. If you were the 45 year old you're disgusting and I hope you rot in hell.


Sorry but they're both disgusting. I've known teen girls who went after married older men for fun/to tempt/ to crush on. Going as far as traveling miles to see them.


Go eff yourself. I was a 17 year old child. He was a 45 year old horny bastard to lied about everytthing he could including his age. 45 year old men can’t be seduced by children. They have agency.


Yes boys lie. Sorry your mom didn't tell you? Maybe the man gave you attention the parent wouldn't but a guy whose 45 can't really make it believable that he's a teen too. And IDK I was 17 before too and it grossed me out when much older men would stare, ogle or hit on me. I would never bother trying to talk to them. FYI was sexually harassed at 13 too but I've never been a horny teen woman entertaining adult men.
Anonymous
Post 09/16/2025 18:24     Subject: Re:Have you ever hooked up with someone much younger or older?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:yes, 17 and 45. Actually, much more than hooked up. Yes, it was really messed up.


Yes. If you were the 17 year old I'm sorry that happened to you. If you were the 45 year old you're disgusting and I hope you rot in hell.


Sorry but they're both disgusting. I've known teen girls who went after married older men for fun/to tempt/ to crush on. Going as far as traveling miles to see them.


Go eff yourself. I was a 17 year old child. He was a 45 year old horny bastard to lied about everytthing he could including his age. 45 year old men can’t be seduced by children. They have agency.


Oh please. 17 years old is not a child. A minor, yes, but not a child.
Anonymous
Post 09/16/2025 18:22     Subject: Have you ever hooked up with someone much younger or older?

One time in my mid twenties I hooked up with a 40 year old kick boxing instructor who was really hot but was totally turned off by the gray body hair
Anonymous
Post 09/16/2025 18:21     Subject: Re:Have you ever hooked up with someone much younger or older?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:yes, 17 and 45. Actually, much more than hooked up. Yes, it was really messed up.


Yes. If you were the 17 year old I'm sorry that happened to you. If you were the 45 year old you're disgusting and I hope you rot in hell.


Sorry but they're both disgusting. I've known teen girls who went after married older men for fun/to tempt/ to crush on. Going as far as traveling miles to see them.


Go eff yourself. I was a 17 year old child. He was a 45 year old horny bastard to lied about everytthing he could including his age. 45 year old men can’t be seduced by children. They have agency.
Anonymous
Post 09/16/2025 18:17     Subject: Have you ever hooked up with someone much younger or older?

Anonymous wrote:I’m 40F and have hooked up with men ages 25-50.

The young ones are enthusiastic but overall really bad in bed. Not their fault, they try, but just don’t have the experience. The 25 year old was like a fumbling teenager, and I felt very gross, ended it about 10 minutes in and left. Even early 30s is pretty bad, the last time I hooked up with one he seriously did not know what a cl****is was or where it was, he was rubbing seriously 1-2 inches away from it. He really tried but the skill just isn’t there yet.

40s-50s tend to have trouble getting it up/staying up. They can and do please in other ways, but it’s just not the same.

Mid-late 30s is sort of the sweet spot, they have enough experience and if they’re healthy, ED hasn’t kicked in yet.


I am a guy and you kind of summarize where I was at various point in time. I am 47 and in denial my erections just aren't what they used to be. I can be rock hard but I can go soft quickly. Time for ED drugs I guess.
Anonymous
Post 09/16/2025 18:17     Subject: Have you ever hooked up with someone much younger or older?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I’m 40F and have hooked up with men ages 25-50.

The young ones are enthusiastic but overall really bad in bed. Not their fault, they try, but just don’t have the experience. The 25 year old was like a fumbling teenager, and I felt very gross, ended it about 10 minutes in and left. Even early 30s is pretty bad, the last time I hooked up with one he seriously did not know what a cl****is was or where it was, he was rubbing seriously 1-2 inches away from it. He really tried but the skill just isn’t there yet.

40s-50s tend to have trouble getting it up/staying up. They can and do please in other ways, but it’s just not the same.

Mid-late 30s is sort of the sweet spot, they have enough experience and if they’re healthy, ED hasn’t kicked in yet.


Wow ED kicks in for men as early as 40s? Harsh. I'm 43 and bf is 37. He still shows signs of going strong/sexually healthy. He's really my first sexually so starting so late I'm horny around him with just the thought but just him no one else. Maybe I'm weird.


PP. It can - honestly, a LOT of it is health. Guys who workout, eat healthy, don't drink or smoke are usually fine. The ones who don't take care of themselves, even if they're still normal weight, have trouble.
Anonymous
Post 09/16/2025 18:15     Subject: Have you ever hooked up with someone much younger or older?

Anonymous wrote:I’m 40F and have hooked up with men ages 25-50.

The young ones are enthusiastic but overall really bad in bed. Not their fault, they try, but just don’t have the experience. The 25 year old was like a fumbling teenager, and I felt very gross, ended it about 10 minutes in and left. Even early 30s is pretty bad, the last time I hooked up with one he seriously did not know what a cl****is was or where it was, he was rubbing seriously 1-2 inches away from it. He really tried but the skill just isn’t there yet.

40s-50s tend to have trouble getting it up/staying up. They can and do please in other ways, but it’s just not the same.

Mid-late 30s is sort of the sweet spot, they have enough experience and if they’re healthy, ED hasn’t kicked in yet.


Wow ED kicks in for men as early as 40s? Harsh. I'm 43 and bf is 37. He still shows signs of going strong/sexually healthy. He's really my first sexually so starting so late I'm horny around him with just the thought but just him no one else. Maybe I'm weird.
Anonymous
Post 09/16/2025 18:12     Subject: Have you ever hooked up with someone much younger or older?

I’m 40F and have hooked up with men ages 25-50.

The young ones are enthusiastic but overall really bad in bed. Not their fault, they try, but just don’t have the experience. The 25 year old was like a fumbling teenager, and I felt very gross, ended it about 10 minutes in and left. Even early 30s is pretty bad, the last time I hooked up with one he seriously did not know what a cl****is was or where it was, he was rubbing seriously 1-2 inches away from it. He really tried but the skill just isn’t there yet.

40s-50s tend to have trouble getting it up/staying up. They can and do please in other ways, but it’s just not the same.

Mid-late 30s is sort of the sweet spot, they have enough experience and if they’re healthy, ED hasn’t kicked in yet.
Anonymous
Post 09/16/2025 18:04     Subject: Have you ever hooked up with someone much younger or older?

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Anonymous wrote:When I was 18-20 I hooked up with a few guys in their late 30s. 19/39 was the biggest age difference.

They knew what they were doing, a lot more so than the 19-20 year old guys I knew in college!


Oh yeah. That was a big draw for all of us in high school and college, heck even afterwards. The older guys were just more mature and better lovers, and better friends even.

Men take forever to grow up. Average 35 year old male is about the same emotional maturity as the average 18 year old female.



Soo that means that both are still childish, selfish, impatient, narcissistic, etc?
Anonymous
Post 09/16/2025 17:59     Subject: Have you ever hooked up with someone much younger or older?

Anonymous wrote:When I was 18-20 I hooked up with a few guys in their late 30s. 19/39 was the biggest age difference.

They knew what they were doing, a lot more so than the 19-20 year old guys I knew in college!


Oh yeah. That was a big draw for all of us in high school and college, heck even afterwards. The older guys were just more mature and better lovers, and better friends even.

Men take forever to grow up. Average 35 year old male is about the same emotional maturity as the average 18 year old female.
Anonymous
Post 09/16/2025 17:56     Subject: Re:Have you ever hooked up with someone much younger or older?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:yes, 17 and 45. Actually, much more than hooked up. Yes, it was really messed up.


Yes. If you were the 17 year old I'm sorry that happened to you. If you were the 45 year old you're disgusting and I hope you rot in hell.


Sorry but they're both disgusting. I've known teen girls who went after married older men for fun/to tempt/ to crush on. Going as far as traveling miles to see them.
Anonymous
Post 09/16/2025 17:55     Subject: Have you ever hooked up with someone much younger or older?

Anonymous wrote:A professor, a friend of your kid, something like that. How old were you both?


Sure. When I was 16 did with an older hunky neighbor who was in his late 40s. Also an assistant coach at my HS, think he was around 35-40ish.
Most guys dated in HS and college were just 10-20 years older so no real big age gap there.
Never tried way younger.
Anonymous
Post 09/16/2025 17:48     Subject: Re:Have you ever hooked up with someone much younger or older?

Anonymous wrote:yes, 17 and 45. Actually, much more than hooked up. Yes, it was really messed up.


Yes. If you were the 17 year old I'm sorry that happened to you. If you were the 45 year old you're disgusting and I hope you rot in hell.