Anonymous
Post 09/16/2025 06:37     Subject: Dying work buddy wants to come to coworkers retirement party

Anonymous wrote:Stay in your lane. He can't just live in a bubble until he passes. He should enjoy his time the way he wants.


This. He’s extremely aware of his risk factors.
Anonymous
Post 09/16/2025 05:55     Subject: Dying work buddy wants to come to coworkers retirement party

I can’t imagine why you think you have any role in your colleague’s decision. I know you mean well, but this is an obvious myob. He is a grown adult, not a child; he obviously know the risks.
Anonymous
Post 09/15/2025 23:57     Subject: Dying work buddy wants to come to coworkers retirement party

Anonymous wrote:Hi, I am immunocompromised.

Here is what you can do to make it safer for all:

1) Try to have it outdoors. If not outdoors, try to open the windows and have some HEPA filters running.

2) At the entrances, have a couple baskets with individually wrapped KN95s/n95s. That might encourage some people to wear masks, especially if they are sniffly.



+1.

If your co-workers won’t do this so that a dying guy can be there in some safety, they aren’t worth much.