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Anonymous wrote:Scheduling is the only way this works with 2 incomes and kids still living at home.

It’s not “spontaneous” or Hollywood-movie, or childishly romantic, but welcome to adulthood.

Why can't it be spontaneous? My kids are in bed by 8/8:30 and then we're up until midnight. That's a lot of time to be spontaneous. There's also morning time.

Honestly, what is wrong with scheduling? I like the anticipation, personally. It's like looking forward to a vacation or dessert.

41/39. Monthly. Three kids five and under. We both enjoy sex, and our kids are all sleeping through the night so there are opportunities, but we're tired and busy and neither of us has a very high drive. We've been together 10 years, and we're very, very happy.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Scheduling is the only way this works with 2 incomes and kids still living at home.

It’s not “spontaneous” or Hollywood-movie, or childishly romantic, but welcome to adulthood.

Why can't it be spontaneous? My kids are in bed by 8/8:30 and then we're up until midnight. That's a lot of time to be spontaneous. There's also morning time.

Teens sleep the same amount or less than us.

So? If you need extra sound dampening, get a TV in your bedroom or "listen" to music during. Just lock the door.

Who are these magical kids who are in bed and sound asleep with the doors closed by 8:30 pm? Not mine 😂. Thank goodness for WFH days 😂🤣😂

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Scheduling is the only way this works with 2 incomes and kids still living at home.

It’s not “spontaneous” or Hollywood-movie, or childishly romantic, but welcome to adulthood.

Why can't it be spontaneous? My kids are in bed by 8/8:30 and then we're up until midnight. That's a lot of time to be spontaneous. There's also morning time.

Teens sleep the same amount or less than us.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Twice a day 36 and 40

Sure……

Funny thing is I thought I had a low libido from my previous relationships. Turns out when you find the right person, can't get enough.

Do you have kids? How do you have the time?

How much time do you need? Kids are in bed by 8.30 latest.

51 and 50.

Once per week for sure, sometimes twice but if you ask my husband he would like 3 times per week. (eye roll here)

Once a week, we're 48

never 50 and 53

Depends on your Mom’s mood. Sometimes she’s horny as hell. Other times she’s a cold fish.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Twice a day 36 and 40

Sure……

Funny thing is I thought I had a low libido from my previous relationships. Turns out when you find the right person, can't get enough.

Do you have kids? How do you have the time?

Yep, 4. Ages 4, 7, 8, 10. We both work from home every day, kids are at school from 7:45am-4:15pm. They all go to bed between 730-845pm.

Anonymous wrote:Scheduling is the only way this works with 2 incomes and kids still living at home.

It’s not “spontaneous” or Hollywood-movie, or childishly romantic, but welcome to adulthood.

Why can't it be spontaneous? My kids are in bed by 8/8:30 and then we're up until midnight. That's a lot of time to be spontaneous. There's also morning time.

My partner (male) is 53 and I'm 54 (female). We have sex once a day unless one of us travels for work or spends time with our kids out of town. It is a newish relationship though (15 months).

Every two or three days, we get snippy if we’re not getting it enough.

Anonymous wrote:Scheduling is the only way this works with 2 incomes and kids still living at home.

It’s not “spontaneous” or Hollywood-movie, or childishly romantic, but welcome to adulthood.

It is what it is.