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Anonymous wrote:OP, I wouldn't let anyone know my location. I'm 60 btw. I just had this conversation wi/my 30yr adult son who doesn't understand my POV. He shares with so many people. "Mom, you don't go anywhere interesting!" True! Been happily married for 30 years.

Still, I'm not sharing. There would have to be some health crisis or some reason I can't even imagine. It's just a mindset. Drop your objection, Op.

You said a lot without actually saying what your POV is.

Also, OPs husband has no problem checking on his wife so whatever his objection might be is not relevant when it comes to other people, apparently. So hyopcriutical. I would most definitely not be "dropping the objection."

It would only be hypocritical if he had asked OP to share her location, which he apparently did not. She chose to.

I’m also old (mid 50’s) and would feel like a creep tracking my husband’s location. Ick. Clearly generational.

He felt it necessary to ask her originally and get it set up on his phone.

Anonymous wrote:Knowing where they are? They deserve privacy. Unless they are doing something immoral or illegal, the right to privacy is a fundamental right.

Even if married.

Anonymous wrote:Since there are - obviously - different points of view, why OP, would you choose to think the worst?

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Anonymous wrote:OP, I wouldn't let anyone know my location. I'm 60 btw. I just had this conversation wi/my 30yr adult son who doesn't understand my POV. He shares with so many people. "Mom, you don't go anywhere interesting!" True! Been happily married for 30 years.

Still, I'm not sharing. There would have to be some health crisis or some reason I can't even imagine. It's just a mindset. Drop your objection, Op.

You said a lot without actually saying what your POV is.

Also, OPs husband has no problem checking on his wife so whatever his objection might be is not relevant when it comes to other people, apparently. So hyopcriutical. I would most definitely not be "dropping the objection."

It would only be hypocritical if he had asked OP to share her location, which he apparently did not. She chose to.

I’m also old (mid 50’s) and would feel like a creep tracking my husband’s location. Ick. Clearly generational.

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Anonymous wrote:Totally shady and I would not let this go. What does he have to hide?

Bullshit. Would you be willing to let your spouse or anyone else just go completely through your phone, reading all your text messages and all your emails and seeing everything you’ve ever searched for? I wouldn’t and it’s not because I’m cheating. It’s because we’re all entitled to a little bit of privacy!

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Anonymous wrote:Totally shady and I would not let this go. What does he have to hide?

Bullshit. Would you be willing to let your spouse or anyone else just go completely through your phone, reading all your text messages and all your emails and seeing everything you’ve ever searched for? I wouldn’t and it’s not because I’m cheating. It’s because we’re all entitled to a little bit of privacy!

One, I absolutely would and do. My DH and I frequently pick up each other's phones and use them. BECAUSE neither of us is nervous about it, we give each other the respect of privacy.

Two, sharing your location is NOWHERE near going through your entire phone and seeing everything you have ever written.

You are absolutely hiding something.

I never said I wouldn’t let anyone “use” my phone. I said I wouldn’t want anyone going through all of my messages and emails and searches.

only people with something to hide ..

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Anonymous wrote:OP, I wouldn't let anyone know my location. I'm 60 btw. I just had this conversation wi/my 30yr adult son who doesn't understand my POV. He shares with so many people. "Mom, you don't go anywhere interesting!" True! Been happily married for 30 years.

Still, I'm not sharing. There would have to be some health crisis or some reason I can't even imagine. It's just a mindset. Drop your objection, Op.

You said a lot without actually saying what your POV is.

Also, OPs husband has no problem checking on his wife so whatever his objection might be is not relevant when it comes to other people, apparently. So hyopcriutical. I would most definitely not be "dropping the objection."

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Anonymous wrote:Totally shady and I would not let this go. What does he have to hide?

Bullshit. Would you be willing to let your spouse or anyone else just go completely through your phone, reading all your text messages and all your emails and seeing everything you’ve ever searched for? I wouldn’t and it’s not because I’m cheating. It’s because we’re all entitled to a little bit of privacy!

One, I absolutely would and do. My DH and I frequently pick up each other's phones and use them. BECAUSE neither of us is nervous about it, we give each other the respect of privacy.

Two, sharing your location is NOWHERE near going through your entire phone and seeing everything you have ever written.

You are absolutely hiding something.

Anonymous wrote:The location tracking feature just breeds paranoia. No good can come of it. Except a good feature for minor children, only.

Op, if you're so inclined, find out the truth based on other things.

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Anonymous wrote:Totally shady and I would not let this go. What does he have to hide?

Bullshit. Would you be willing to let your spouse or anyone else just go completely through your phone, reading all your text messages and all your emails and seeing everything you’ve ever searched for? I wouldn’t and it’s not because I’m cheating. It’s because we’re all entitled to a little bit of privacy!