Anonymous
Post 09/03/2025 11:07     Subject: How exactly did you meet your partner?

HS sweethearts, I was 16 he was 17. We are 35/36 now.
Anonymous
Post 09/03/2025 10:59     Subject: How exactly did you meet your partner?

Frat party. He was friends with my best friend’s boyfriend. I was 19 then. I’m 44 now.
Anonymous
Post 09/03/2025 10:57     Subject: How exactly did you meet your partner?

Arranged marriage
Anonymous
Post 09/03/2025 10:24     Subject: How exactly did you meet your partner?

Single Volunteers of DC in 1999. Staffing a fundraiser event together. We were 29 and 36. Been married 24 years.
Anonymous
Post 09/03/2025 09:35     Subject: How exactly did you meet your partner?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Medical school, early 20s, paired together in pathophysiology and ran into each other a lot at the gym and local running paths.

Almost every woman physician I know is married to another physician. The few who aren’t usually met their spouse before med school.

Interesting. A lot of male doctors in the hospital I worked at were married to nurses but now that you mention it the reverse was not true.


How old are you? The older generation used to marry female nurses, but the current generation is more likely to marry someone of their same income/education level.



I’m 40, and a lot of my male coworkers are also married to docs, or lawyers/other professionals. I work in a large academic center (not DC).

My son’s private school class has six kids who have dual physician parents and a few with docs married to dentists or lawyers. Going to back to school night feels like going to any other professional gathering.
Anonymous
Post 09/03/2025 09:32     Subject: How exactly did you meet your partner?

Age 47. Met him at a dance club when I was 23. It was Latin night, he asked me to dance. It was supposed to be a fling.
Anonymous
Post 09/03/2025 09:29     Subject: How exactly did you meet your partner?

At the gym.
Anonymous
Post 09/03/2025 09:28     Subject: How exactly did you meet your partner?

I visited his site on a work trip. Love at first sight. 2 years long distance then moving in together in my city then marrying and moving around (the world) together. We were in our 20s. 25 years ago.
Anonymous
Post 09/03/2025 09:28     Subject: How exactly did you meet your partner?

In dental school.
Anonymous
Post 09/03/2025 09:25     Subject: How exactly did you meet your partner?

19 and 21, a mutual friend invited me to a party at his house in college. We’re 38 and 40 now.
Anonymous
Post 09/03/2025 09:24     Subject: How exactly did you meet your partner?

On Bumble 10 years ago. Maybe we just got lucky or maybe online dating is way worse now (probably both), but it worked out for us. It was really cool to meet someone where we had zero pre-existing conceptions or ties. Those first few months of dating felt like we lived in our own little world.
Anonymous
Post 09/03/2025 09:21     Subject: How exactly did you meet your partner?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Medical school, early 20s, paired together in pathophysiology and ran into each other a lot at the gym and local running paths.

Almost every woman physician I know is married to another physician. The few who aren’t usually met their spouse before med school.

Interesting. A lot of male doctors in the hospital I worked at were married to nurses but now that you mention it the reverse was not true.


How old are you? The older generation used to marry female nurses, but the current generation is more likely to marry someone of their same income/education level.
Anonymous
Post 09/03/2025 09:21     Subject: How exactly did you meet your partner?

Anonymous wrote:On reddit

Yay for Anonymous forums


For real? Do tell…
Anonymous
Post 09/03/2025 09:21     Subject: How exactly did you meet your partner?

Met at an intern party at 21.

Love these stories! DH and I joke that we dodged a bullet meeting before OLD became pervasive. I feel 2nd hand trauma from watching my friends go through OLD.
Anonymous
Post 09/03/2025 09:20     Subject: How exactly did you meet your partner?

Anonymous wrote:Medical school, early 20s, paired together in pathophysiology and ran into each other a lot at the gym and local running paths.

Almost every woman physician I know is married to another physician. The few who aren’t usually met their spouse before med school.

Interesting. A lot of male doctors in the hospital I worked at were married to nurses but now that you mention it the reverse was not true.