Anonymous
Post 08/31/2025 15:27     Subject: Re:Parents Paying for College is Real Reason College Has Become Unaffordable for Many
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP—You should demand a refund from that college you paid for. They gave you a diploma but forgot to ensure that you could form a logical idea.


Let alone use punctuation correctly.


Oh wow. What helpful commentary. Thank god we have you to bless us with your input
Anonymous
Post 08/31/2025 15:27     Subject: Re:Parents Paying for College is Real Reason College Has Become Unaffordable for Many
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP—You should demand a refund from that college you paid for. They gave you a diploma but forgot to ensure that you could form a logical idea.


+1. It is truly scary to think you graduated from college and don't know the basics of how to think, OP. What did you pay for?


Imo op knows how to think. You do not. A sheep
Anonymous
Post 08/31/2025 15:25     Subject: Parents Paying for College is Real Reason College Has Become Unaffordable for Many
Anonymous wrote:Make colleges a guarantor for 10% of a student’s loan. If he/she goes in to default then the school has to pay back 10%. Schools will be highly proactive to reduce student debt. Sure, some colleges will go bust, but that is going to happen anyway with the demographic cliff approaching.


This. Or more even. People who argue against this sort of fix are similar to the ones who argue against gun control and have every excuse in the book why are current system works *but for* blah blah
Anonymous
Post 08/31/2025 15:23     Subject: Re:Parents Paying for College is Real Reason College Has Become Unaffordable for Many
Anonymous wrote:OP—You should demand a refund from that college you paid for. They gave you a diploma but forgot to ensure that you could form a logical idea.


Op is not completely wrong
Anonymous
Post 08/31/2025 15:23     Subject: Parents Paying for College is Real Reason College Has Become Unaffordable for Many
Anonymous wrote:Actually that isn't it OP. It is due to the federal govt first backing the loans and then issuing loans. If a student can get 50k in loans the schools are going to charge 50k. The students with the most student loan debt "attend" the for profit schools like University of Phoenix.

You should really read up on it. Really fascinating and then you realize we are all getting fleeced because at some point it was decided that everyone should go to college.


This is exactly it. But op isn’t far off either. The point is that colleges will charge as much as they can. It’s absurd and sick
Anonymous
Post 08/31/2025 15:16     Subject: Parents Paying for College is Real Reason College Has Become Unaffordable for Many
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Loans are definitely part of today’s problem but parents paying for ADULT children (18+) is part of the equation none of you are willing to accept is parents paying. Take away the loans fewer students attend and costs fall. Parents paying and costs fall further and puts the burden back where it belongs on the students.


The cost of living - room and board - is currently around 20k per year at most 4-year universities. Students cannot afford 20k per year through a combination of work and loans. 15k would be a stretch. 10k more reasonable.

That doesn't even touch TUITION.

You want students to pay their own way? They can, by living at home and attend community college. Still, gas/car insurance/food make it tight.


+1. Higher education inflation has FAR exceeded overall inflation over the last 35 years so that it's simply no longer possible for a student to pay for even in-state tuition, room and board at most public universities through summer jobs, work-study, and small loans. So if a kid doesn't get family help, a big loan,or a sizable merit scholarship, they are basically limited to community college no matter how industrious they are.
Anonymous
Post 08/31/2025 11:10     Subject: Re:Parents Paying for College is Real Reason College Has Become Unaffordable for Many
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP—You should demand a refund from that college you paid for. They gave you a diploma but forgot to ensure that you could form a logical idea.


+1. It is truly scary to think you graduated from college and don't know the basics of how to think, OP. What did you pay for?


+2. What school did you graduate from, OP? The real solution is schools like yours need to close, because they are taking money and graduating students without teaching them anything. You would have been better off learning a trade.
Anonymous
Post 08/31/2025 11:08     Subject: Parents Paying for College is Real Reason College Has Become Unaffordable for Many
Anonymous wrote:Loans are definitely part of today’s problem but parents paying for ADULT children (18+) is part of the equation none of you are willing to accept is parents paying. Take away the loans fewer students attend and costs fall. Parents paying and costs fall further and puts the burden back where it belongs on the students.



Better idea: Build fewer aircraft carriers, cut ICE’s budget by 80% and make college free.
Anonymous
Post 08/31/2025 11:05     Subject: Re:Parents Paying for College is Real Reason College Has Become Unaffordable for Many
Anonymous wrote:OP—You should demand a refund from that college you paid for. They gave you a diploma but forgot to ensure that you could form a logical idea.


Let alone use punctuation correctly.
Anonymous
Post 08/31/2025 11:05     Subject: Re:Parents Paying for College is Real Reason College Has Become Unaffordable for Many
Anonymous wrote:OP—You should demand a refund from that college you paid for. They gave you a diploma but forgot to ensure that you could form a logical idea.


+1. It is truly scary to think you graduated from college and don't know the basics of how to think, OP. What did you pay for?
Anonymous
Post 08/31/2025 11:05     Subject: Parents Paying for College is Real Reason College Has Become Unaffordable for Many
Anonymous wrote:Let’s face it. Everyone who pays for their (grand)child’s college education is complicit. Few of my friend’s had parental help and we graduated from Top 20 schools. We paid with summer jobs, small jobs during during the school year (8-10h/wk), scholarships, and student loans. My mom took out a $2k loan my first year, which I paid back within a couple years after starting work. Sure, I got a small care package every semester with some snacks but the rest was on me. I am proud in having paid my own way. Ditto many friends. We also paid for our own weddings and houses. Grown kids now don’t even pay for their own phones, some are still taking money from their parents.

If we really want to make college affordable, parents need to stop paying.



Are you sure?
Anonymous
Post 08/31/2025 11:03     Subject: Parents Paying for College is Real Reason College Has Become Unaffordable for Many

OP,

Are you paying for your child's education?


Anonymous
Post 08/31/2025 11:02     Subject: Parents Paying for College is Real Reason College Has Become Unaffordable for Many
Anonymous wrote:Let’s face it. Everyone who pays for their (grand)child’s college education is complicit. Few of my friend’s had parental help and we graduated from Top 20 schools. We paid with summer jobs, small jobs during during the school year (8-10h/wk), scholarships, and student loans. My mom took out a $2k loan my first year, which I paid back within a couple years after starting work. Sure, I got a small care package every semester with some snacks but the rest was on me. I am proud in having paid my own way. Ditto many friends. We also paid for our own weddings and houses. Grown kids now don’t even pay for their own phones, some are still taking money from their parents.

If we really want to make college affordable, parents need to stop paying.



Yes! The astronomical cost of college is bc of parental hekp, not the sticker price!

Everyone should do the bolded- will solve the exp tuition problems!! Question: how much was your tuition, room and board when you went?
Anonymous
Post 08/31/2025 10:49     Subject: Parents Paying for College is Real Reason College Has Become Unaffordable for Many
Anonymous wrote:Loans are definitely part of today’s problem but parents paying for ADULT children (18+) is part of the equation none of you are willing to accept is parents paying. Take away the loans fewer students attend and costs fall. Parents paying and costs fall further and puts the burden back where it belongs on the students.


The cost of living - room and board - is currently around 20k per year at most 4-year universities. Students cannot afford 20k per year through a combination of work and loans. 15k would be a stretch. 10k more reasonable.

That doesn't even touch TUITION.

You want students to pay their own way? They can, by living at home and attend community college. Still, gas/car insurance/food make it tight.
Anonymous
Post 08/31/2025 10:00     Subject: Parents Paying for College is Real Reason College Has Become Unaffordable for Many
Loans are definitely part of today’s problem but parents paying for ADULT children (18+) is part of the equation none of you are willing to accept is parents paying. Take away the loans fewer students attend and costs fall. Parents paying and costs fall further and puts the burden back where it belongs on the students.