Anonymous
Post 08/22/2025 20:47     Subject: If you found out someone badmouthed you, and it resulted in job loss, would you address it months later?
Who told you about it and why? I wouldn't believe everything you hear.
Anonymous
Post 08/22/2025 20:45     Subject: If you found out someone badmouthed you, and it resulted in job loss, would you address it months later?
Anonymous wrote:If I had a chance to do them some harm, however small, I'd take it, but I wouldn't talk to them about it.


+1

Absolutely do not bring it up. But this is what I would do too, though it's probably healthier to just be a better person.
Anonymous
Post 08/22/2025 19:56     Subject: If you found out someone badmouthed you, and it resulted in job loss, would you address it months later?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I would not bring it up. I would methodically do whatever I could to destroy that person’s life.


Pretty much this. I’m getting my lick back.


I would mail them thishttps://dicksbymail.com/products/bag-of-dicks

Anonymous
Post 08/22/2025 19:55     Subject: If you found out someone badmouthed you, and it resulted in job loss, would you address it months later?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Success is the best revenge. Ooze happiness when you run into her. "I've never been happier. Leaving X (school) was the best thing that could have happened to me. "

This!

^^on second thought, she sounds diabolical. Maybe don't give her any information/ammunition at all. Steer clear, be polite but don't engage. She sounds dangerous.



For real. I had no idea and I am so angry. I feel so betrayed. I am angry because I left her with a TON of resources also. I wish I could get them back.
Anonymous
Post 08/22/2025 19:54     Subject: If you found out someone badmouthed you, and it resulted in job loss, would you address it months later?
Anonymous wrote:I would just quietly disengage. I would not respond at all.

If asked anything in person, just say "I'm so sorry. Too busy to chat right now" and then leave.


I mean, I run into her a LOT. We lived in very small middle of nowhere town.
Anonymous
Post 08/22/2025 19:50     Subject: If you found out someone badmouthed you, and it resulted in job loss, would you address it months later?
I would just quietly disengage. I would not respond at all.

If asked anything in person, just say "I'm so sorry. Too busy to chat right now" and then leave.
Anonymous
Post 08/22/2025 19:47     Subject: If you found out someone badmouthed you, and it resulted in job loss, would you address it months later?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Success is the best revenge. Ooze happiness when you run into her. "I've never been happier. Leaving X (school) was the best thing that could have happened to me. "

This!

^^on second thought, she sounds diabolical. Maybe don't give her any information/ammunition at all. Steer clear, be polite but don't engage. She sounds dangerous.

Anonymous
Post 08/22/2025 19:45     Subject: If you found out someone badmouthed you, and it resulted in job loss, would you address it months later?
Anonymous wrote:Success is the best revenge. Ooze happiness when you run into her. "I've never been happier. Leaving X (school) was the best thing that could have happened to me. "

This!
Anonymous
Post 08/22/2025 19:43     Subject: If you found out someone badmouthed you, and it resulted in job loss, would you address it months later?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I would not bring it up. I would methodically do whatever I could to destroy that person’s life.


Pretty much this. I’m getting my lick back.


Deets?
Anonymous
Post 08/22/2025 19:43     Subject: If you found out someone badmouthed you, and it resulted in job loss, would you address it months later?
If you do bring it up, I could imagine her smirking. Women are like this.
Anonymous
Post 08/22/2025 19:35     Subject: If you found out someone badmouthed you, and it resulted in job loss, would you address it months later?
Anonymous wrote:I would not bring it up. I would methodically do whatever I could to destroy that person’s life.


Pretty much this. I’m getting my lick back.
Anonymous
Post 08/22/2025 19:05     Subject: If you found out someone badmouthed you, and it resulted in job loss, would you address it months later?
Anonymous wrote:Success is the best revenge. Ooze happiness when you run into her. "I've never been happier. Leaving X (school) was the best thing that could have happened to me. "


Yep, I would add little digs on the old school. And omg, love xyz at my new school. And maybe even a concerned - oh, I hope Larla spent some time on her times tables this summer. (But not in the subject area that you teach so she doesn’t give it back to you.)

No point in calling her out explicitly as it sounds like you need to engage with her anyway.
Anonymous
Post 08/22/2025 18:13     Subject: If you found out someone badmouthed you, and it resulted in job loss, would you address it months later?
Success is the best revenge. Ooze happiness when you run into her. "I've never been happier. Leaving X (school) was the best thing that could have happened to me. "
Anonymous
Post 08/22/2025 18:10     Subject: If you found out someone badmouthed you, and it resulted in job loss, would you address it months later?
Anonymous wrote:Do your other former colleagues know she ratted on you? I would make sure they know.

I might or might not say something to her. But it's weird she kept in touch.


It’s weird she sat with me at lunch, soccer games, team planning, hallway discussions and more…only to have been reporting me. What a B.
Anonymous
Post 08/22/2025 18:07     Subject: If you found out someone badmouthed you, and it resulted in job loss, would you address it months later?
Do your other former colleagues know she ratted on you? I would make sure they know.

I might or might not say something to her. But it's weird she kept in touch.