Anonymous wrote:I’m a 14 and my job is institutional knowledge and part transferable skills and RTO is killing me slowly. The market is terrible and I would be looking at a large pay cut, which as a single parent breadwinner with kids on the cusp of college I cannot afford. I am 12 years from retirement.
I am well and truly stuck. I would never ever have taken this job if I’d known we would be going in 5 days a week. It was truly unimaginable because even before Covid people in my current office were not going in 5 days a week. If I’d stayed in my old job my commute would have been manageable.
I am exhausted, in pain, and less of a parent to my teens. I am not “managing” it but going into negative sick leave.
It’s easier to leave if you are only a couple of year in. And if you are only a couple of years from retirement, at least there is light at the end of the tunnel. For the rest of us there is just no hope and I kind of want to die.
Anonymous wrote:I'm in the same boat. GS-15, 17 years in. My workplace is not hostile but I am bored out of my mind because I have been doing the same job for so long. There is nothing out there right now. I'm keeping myself sane by taking liberal use of paid time off and traveling with my family. I'm also working out a lot and I'm going to start doing pro bono work rather than buying my way out of it each year. My advice is to find ways to make the time that you are out of the office fulfilling.
Anonymous wrote:How old are you?
The hotelling sounds really painful. I think in your shoes I would try to figure out ways to make it more tenable and any possible workarounds.
Anonymous wrote:I'm 3 years in and I'm bored out of my mind and want to die. I'm only 36.
Would you recommend moving within the federal government?
I mean, putting histrionics aside, it would mean completing another probationary period, but is it more of the same crap?
Anonymous wrote:I'm 3 years in and I'm bored out of my mind and want to die. I'm only 36.
Would you recommend moving within the federal government?
I mean, putting histrionics aside, it would mean completing another probationary period, but is it more of the same crap?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:No, everyone is not right there with you. We worked low wage jobs with no benefits or even a contract. We all bought growth stocks and crypto in 2020 and we thought we were late. We had nothing to lose. I put my $800 a week unemployment into them. I had previously made only $400 a week.
Everyone with a fancy job seemed skeptical as we jumped in. I'm talking about 10 people who could have done what I and few of my co-workers did.
I retire this year. All those people with decent jobs, 401k's, and benefits are still working and will be til they are 65.
'If I were to lose the money, it's only 10%'. The rest is what I have learned. I can get it back, but faster this time.
You worked low wage jobs and....what? Bought enough crypto to retire? Get out of here
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