Anonymous wrote:I love how some people count getting ready for work and their commute and lunch as hours spent working. Therefore, I work 80 hours a week. I’m the most productive and important and incredible person where I work, and I still make all my kids events, volunteer rescuing puppies and fly to the Mediterranean every weekend to rescue immigrants from sinking boats.
Anonymous wrote:I used to hir 40 hours at work by Wed each week for years. My normal schedule if you consider commute was leave home for work at 645 am and get home around 745 pm.
I would get home, change, eat dinner out of microwave as wife would leave a plate, clean up kitchen for wife. Then we get kids to bed, watch TV with wife for awhile. Since wife with kids a day when we had babies I do the bottle feedings at night and change diapers. My wife need to sleep as had kids all day.
My kids a lot of activities such as soccer, dance recitals were on weekends and I go. I also mowed my own lawn, spend Saturdays helping wife Laundry and vacuuming and home improvements.
I did not have time hobbies, going out with friends, social media, gold etc. I had plenty of time for my family and work those hours. I on average sleep 5-6 hours a night so I literally had plenty of time to be gone 65 hours a week.
People today are just a bit lazier including myself. ,
Anonymous wrote:I work well over 70 hours a week across multiple jobs, plus manage several Airbnbs. I’ve automated most of the Airbnb work, so it’s not hands-on every day.
Even with that schedule, I’m home every night. I’m married, spend time with my spouse, take my vacation days and travel, and I’m at all my kids’ events. I don’t feel overworked or burned out.
So what is it? Am I just wired differently, or have expectations for what’s considered “too much work” shifted?
Anonymous wrote:I work well over 70 hours a week across multiple jobs, plus manage several Airbnbs. I’ve automated most of the Airbnb work, so it’s not hands-on every day.
Even with that schedule, I’m home every night. I’m married, spend time with my spouse, take my vacation days and travel, and I’m at all my kids’ events. I don’t feel overworked or burned out.
So what is it? Am I just wired differently, or have expectations for what’s considered “too much work” shifted?
Anonymous wrote:I used to hir 40 hours at work by Wed each week for years. My normal schedule if you consider commute was leave home for work at 645 am and get home around 745 pm.
I would get home, change, eat dinner out of microwave as wife would leave a plate, clean up kitchen for wife. Then we get kids to bed, watch TV with wife for awhile. Since wife with kids a day when we had babies I do the bottle feedings at night and change diapers. My wife need to sleep as had kids all day.
My kids a lot of activities such as soccer, dance recitals were on weekends and I go. I also mowed my own lawn, spend Saturdays helping wife Laundry and vacuuming and home improvements.
I did not have time hobbies, going out with friends, social media, gold etc. I had plenty of time for my family and work those hours. I on average sleep 5-6 hours a night so I literally had plenty of time to be gone 65 hours a week.
People today are just a bit lazier including myself. ,
Anonymous wrote:I work well over 70 hours a week across multiple jobs, plus manage several Airbnbs. I’ve automated most of the Airbnb work, so it’s not hands-on every day.
Even with that schedule, I’m home every night. I’m married, spend time with my spouse, take my vacation days and travel, and I’m at all my kids’ events. I don’t feel overworked or burned out.
So what is it? Am I just wired differently, or have expectations for what’s considered “too much work” shifted?
Anonymous wrote:The fact that you work more does not make it a universal truth that working 40 hours is easy or desirable.
Especially in today's world where many jobs now force you to take 30 or even 60 minute unpaid lunch and affordable housing comes with a 60+ minute commute your "40" hour job is really 60+ when counting all the unpaid extra time you're forced to devote to it.
People are more productive than any other point in history and studies show that after about 20 hours a week you get seriously diminishing returns on output. There is literally no reason we need to be working 40 hours and the only reason we're forced to is so the 1% can get even more money despite the fact that they already have more than they could possibly spend in a hundred lifetimes.
Anonymous wrote:Can you hand your phone to your spouse so she can tell us how much of your lifestyle she’s enabling?
Anonymous wrote:
People I know are desperately looking for jobs, so WAY TO BE INSENSITIVE, OP. You are posting on DCUM, in an area that depends on federal jobs.