Anonymous wrote:My dad passed when I was 21, but he was the one I was closest to at the time. We were always calling, emailing, meeting for lunch once I was back in my home city after college. I am now in my early 40s but talk to my mom just about every day. We also text frequently. She comes and visits us 2-3x a month for a night or two - 2 hour drive each way - and we see her on a vacation or visit her about once every 2 months.
I was the same with my dad. I miss him so much. He used to remind me to call my mom once in awhile- since I saw my dad more (worked in same building/agency) I’d get all the info from him. My dad was my go to - first call for any good or bad news and whenever I needed advice. Since he died, I have to remind myself to call my mom e wet day or so. I call 2-3 times per week. See her about 1-2 times a month.