Anonymous
Post 07/22/2025 08:17     Subject: NYT: "The Trouble with Men"
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:What's NYT's agenda?


Sell newspapers to democrats who lack critical thinking skills.


+1000
Anonymous
Post 07/22/2025 08:16     Subject: NYT: "The Trouble with Men"
So, in a nutshell, is WSJ an elite men's newspaper, and NYT an elite women's newspaper? And has been for decades? That makes so much sense now that I think about years of reporting.
Anonymous
Post 07/22/2025 08:16     Subject: NYT: "The Trouble with Men"
Anonymous wrote:Secretaries ? What line of work are you in that you still have a secretary? Mine was phased 5+ years ago.


I'm a lawyer (woman) and I still have a secretary although she works for multiple people. Her title is administrative assistant, not secretary, but she handles those types of tasks. I've never not had an admin at any firm I've been at (I'm 46).
Anonymous
Post 07/22/2025 08:16     Subject: NYT: "The Trouble with Men"
Anonymous wrote:Perhaps we need to do a better job of preparing our sons (and daughters!) for eventual marriage.

Navigating relationships is a critical life skill.



+100
Anonymous
Post 07/22/2025 08:14     Subject: NYT: "The Trouble with Men"
Anonymous wrote:Secretaries ? What line of work are you in that you still have a secretary? Mine was phased 5+ years ago.


Secretaries are replaced by AI bots, and yes, those are replacing women for sex.
Anonymous
Post 07/22/2025 08:01     Subject: NYT: "The Trouble with Men"
Anonymous wrote:I feel like this is another instance of media not reflecting real life, which is happening more and more these days.


It isn’t that complicated. It’s just an example of Main Character Syndrome.
Anonymous
Post 07/22/2025 07:59     Subject: NYT: "The Trouble with Men"
Anonymous wrote:I feel like this is another instance of media not reflecting real life, which is happening more and more these days.


Real life looks different for different people. Anyone and everyone can find someone in the media to tell them exactly what they’re supposed to think.
Anonymous
Post 07/22/2025 07:54     Subject: NYT: "The Trouble with Men"
I feel like this is another instance of media not reflecting real life, which is happening more and more these days.
Anonymous
Post 07/22/2025 07:48     Subject: NYT: "The Trouble with Men"
Anonymous wrote:Having actually read the article, it's just clickbait for the NYT set. The author left an open marriage because she fell for one of the men she was dating and when that relationship didn't work out, she found herself in the middle aged dating pool in NYC where she goes out on dates with openly non-monogamous men. Hardly a representative sample of mainstream dating.

As a woman, the article just made me roll my eyes because the author and her friends seem to be self-selecting for these high drama relationships.


Spot on. I do actually believe we have a sociological problem in this country - women on the rise and wanting equal partners, men on decline and wanting the 50s back. But this article was not that at all. She was ridiculous.
Anonymous
Post 07/22/2025 07:45     Subject: Re:NYT: "The Trouble with Men"
It’s true in many instances. Not universally, of course. I think it’s cultural, and limited to the USA. Other countries/cultures hold men accountable, and have better role models.
Anonymous
Post 07/22/2025 07:42     Subject: NYT: "The Trouble with Men"
Having actually read the article, it's just clickbait for the NYT set. The author left an open marriage because she fell for one of the men she was dating and when that relationship didn't work out, she found herself in the middle aged dating pool in NYC where she goes out on dates with openly non-monogamous men. Hardly a representative sample of mainstream dating.

As a woman, the article just made me roll my eyes because the author and her friends seem to be self-selecting for these high drama relationships.
Anonymous
Post 07/22/2025 06:40     Subject: NYT: "The Trouble with Men"
Anonymous wrote:What's NYT's agenda?


This is intellectual Carrie Bradshaw for a new generation. The author was raised in Park Slope and educated at Oberlin and Bard, so her audience knows who they are.
Anonymous
Post 07/22/2025 06:27     Subject: NYT: "The Trouble with Men"
Anonymous wrote:Secretaries ? What line of work are you in that you still have a secretary? Mine was phased 5+ years ago.


Mine is in India. I can’t even sexually harass her.
Anonymous
Post 07/22/2025 06:27     Subject: NYT: "The Trouble with Men"
Anonymous wrote:Men will return when masculinity is not attacked, diminished and outright demonized. Until then, men will come last in the home, but remain first to their young, attractive secretaries at work.

Couldn’t resist.


No one has attacked, diminished or outright demonized masculinity. Whatever are you prattling on about.
Anonymous
Post 07/22/2025 06:25     Subject: NYT: "The Trouble with Men"
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:What's NYT's agenda?


Sell newspapers to democrats who lack critical thinking skills.


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