Anonymous
07/20/2025 15:36
Subject: Re:Scared Straight - Astronomer CEO Edition
Amen. What we have on display here is classic narc behavior. Narcs by nature are incapable of true introspection.Anonymous wrote:The defining trait among cheaters is that they think they are smarter and better than everyone else. They never think they will be caught, that happens to dumb people. They are watching this going- duh- they were at a concert.
My ex was like this and he and his married whore never were out in public. They never communicated via text or email, etc. it was imperative to both that they never get caught. And….they got caught after several years.
It’s a narc trait. They think they are wiser, craftier, special, etc.
These people won’t be scared straight, they are sh@t people. They will be more careful for a bit. That’s about it.
Anonymous
07/20/2025 13:27
Subject: Scared Straight - Astronomer CEO Edition
AP and I already have a rule that we never touch in public. Being seen in public isn't a problem because we have legitimate reasons to be together anyway. So, Coldplaygate just reminds us of the value of our rule against public touching.
Anonymous
07/20/2025 13:21
Subject: Scared Straight - Astronomer CEO Edition
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:None.
Most aren’t that bold.
Seems highly unlikely you would be caught on a jumbotron at a concert.
70,000 or so concert goers at this particular concert, Jumbotron chooses the cheating couple, and another concert goer catches it play put on their phone video, and uploads is somehow that it immediately goes viral (I saw it within hours). Someone calculate the odds.
The jumbotron picking them was the only random chance. Their actions guaranteed it would be posted.
About 1 in 6,000 for the jumbotron to find you.
Anonymous
07/20/2025 13:05
Subject: Scared Straight - Astronomer CEO Edition
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Known cheaters in my family are uncomfortable. Lol
We were talking about this at a family gathering and were laughing about the whole thing. I looked around, and the two men who were very queit and looking away are known serial cheaters. One is on his second marriage because wife left him for repeatedly cheating on her. His second wife ( not his affair partner) was laughing with us. 😆
Did 2nd wife know? Poor lady- she’s going to find out how Kerrigan feels soon enough.
She probably knows why the first wife left. He may have made up some story, but she is close to his first wife. They had to co parent first set of kids and decided to be friends/ friendly.
Hope he is more careful this time around ( no one in my family believes he is capable of being faithful). And he married a fighter this time, so I can see this woman beating the crap out of him if she finds out. She is already on his case for laziness/ man child behavior that was tolerated by his first wife.
That doesn’t stop a serial cheater. If anything it makes it more exciting to cheat - more danger. Sigh …..
Yeah. We don't think he can stop. And he knows how to pick great women (he is good looking so that helps). His first wife makes good money, and the divorce was drama free. His second wife runs his company for him, and she has tremendously contributed to its growth. So even if this one does not work out, he will be financially ok and on to the next marriage.
Anonymous
07/20/2025 12:22
Subject: Scared Straight - Astronomer CEO Edition
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Known cheaters in my family are uncomfortable. Lol
We were talking about this at a family gathering and were laughing about the whole thing. I looked around, and the two men who were very queit and looking away are known serial cheaters. One is on his second marriage because wife left him for repeatedly cheating on her. His second wife ( not his affair partner) was laughing with us. 😆
Did 2nd wife know? Poor lady- she’s going to find out how Kerrigan feels soon enough.
She probably knows why the first wife left. He may have made up some story, but she is close to his first wife. They had to co parent first set of kids and decided to be friends/ friendly.
Hope he is more careful this time around ( no one in my family believes he is capable of being faithful). And he married a fighter this time, so I can see this woman beating the crap out of him if she finds out. She is already on his case for laziness/ man child behavior that was tolerated by his first wife.
That doesn’t stop a serial cheater. If anything it makes it more exciting to cheat - more danger. Sigh …..
Anonymous
07/20/2025 12:10
Subject: Scared Straight - Astronomer CEO Edition
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Known cheaters in my family are uncomfortable. Lol
We were talking about this at a family gathering and were laughing about the whole thing. I looked around, and the two men who were very queit and looking away are known serial cheaters. One is on his second marriage because wife left him for repeatedly cheating on her. His second wife ( not his affair partner) was laughing with us. 😆
Did 2nd wife know? Poor lady- she’s going to find out how Kerrigan feels soon enough.
She probably knows why the first wife left. He may have made up some story, but she is close to his first wife. They had to co parent first set of kids and decided to be friends/ friendly.
Hope he is more careful this time around ( no one in my family believes he is capable of being faithful). And he married a fighter this time, so I can see this woman beating the crap out of him if she finds out. She is already on his case for laziness/ man child behavior that was tolerated by his first wife.
Anonymous
07/20/2025 11:58
Subject: Re:Scared Straight - Astronomer CEO Edition
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The defining trait among cheaters is that they think they are smarter and better than everyone else. They never think they will be caught, that happens to dumb people. They are watching this going- duh- they were at a concert.
My ex was like this and he and his married whore never were out in public. They never communicated via text or email, etc. it was imperative to both that they never get caught. And….they got caught after several years.
It’s a narc trait. They think they are wiser, craftier, special, etc.
These people won’t be scared straight, they are sh@t people. They will be more careful for a bit. That’s about it.
Ehhh… Or maybe they simply don’t care.
This often happens. Usually they dont want their jobs impacted but often the AP wants the cheater to pick them and the cheater in some ways wants to get caught so that they dont have to choose.
A friend of mine, a married mother of two, had an affair with her boss who is also married. Went on for a couple of years and did not tell her husband even after a couple of months of getting pregnant by her boss. She just could not bring herself to tell her husband, who is pretty nice guy according to her. He had to find the hard way, that she was pregnant but not by him.
Anonymous
07/20/2025 10:17
Subject: Scared Straight - Astronomer CEO Edition
Anonymous wrote:Known cheaters in my family are uncomfortable. Lol
We were talking about this at a family gathering and were laughing about the whole thing. I looked around, and the two men who were very queit and looking away are known serial cheaters. One is on his second marriage because wife left him for repeatedly cheating on her. His second wife ( not his affair partner) was laughing with us. 😆
Did 2nd wife know? Poor lady- she’s going to find out how Kerrigan feels soon enough.
Anonymous
07/20/2025 08:41
Subject: Re:Scared Straight - Astronomer CEO Edition
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The defining trait among cheaters is that they think they are smarter and better than everyone else. They never think they will be caught, that happens to dumb people. They are watching this going- duh- they were at a concert.
My ex was like this and he and his married whore never were out in public. They never communicated via text or email, etc. it was imperative to both that they never get caught. And….they got caught after several years.
It’s a narc trait. They think they are wiser, craftier, special, etc.
These people won’t be scared straight, they are sh@t people. They will be more careful for a bit. That’s about it.
Ehhh… Or maybe they simply don’t care.
This often happens. Usually they dont want their jobs impacted but often the AP wants the cheater to pick them and the cheater in some ways wants to get caught so that they dont have to choose.
Anonymous
07/20/2025 08:40
Subject: Scared Straight - Astronomer CEO Edition
Anonymous wrote:I agree, none. Most cheaters don't care about anything other than getting their fragile ego stroked.
When I lived in Tysons this happened ALL the time in parked cars. I called the cops to investigate every time.
I also don’t think this Weill deter anyone from cheating. But my reasoning is that Most would be “hiding” in a parking lot, not hugged up advertising their relationship in a company suite at a concert with 50k in attendance.
Anonymous
07/20/2025 08:32
Subject: Scared Straight - Astronomer CEO Edition
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:None.
Most aren’t that bold.
Seems highly unlikely you would be caught on a jumbotron at a concert.
70,000 or so concert goers at this particular concert, Jumbotron chooses the cheating couple, and another concert goer catches it play put on their phone video, and uploads is somehow that it immediately goes viral (I saw it within hours). Someone calculate the odds.
Anonymous
07/20/2025 08:32
Subject: Scared Straight - Astronomer CEO Edition
Anonymous wrote:None… Dumb a$$. I’m willing to bet he has a “God like” attitude and thought he would never get caught. Probably an entitled prick with a lot of money and feels he can do whatever he wants.
And what about the woman? She was equally as complicit and also cheating on her husband.
Anonymous
07/20/2025 08:23
Subject: Scared Straight - Astronomer CEO Edition
Anonymous wrote:None… Dumb a$$. I’m willing to bet he has a “God like” attitude and thought he would never get caught. Probably an entitled prick with a lot of money and feels he can do whatever he wants.
Byron. Also, the slither and hide when caught reaction.
Anonymous
07/20/2025 08:15
Subject: Scared Straight - Astronomer CEO Edition
None. And another thread was not needed on the topic.
Anonymous
07/20/2025 07:54
Subject: Scared Straight - Astronomer CEO Edition
Anonymous wrote:How many people do you think are re-considering cheating on their spouses after what happened at the Coldplay concert?
Zero.