Anonymous
Post 07/19/2025 11:51     Subject: Friend is cheating on apparently villainous wife
Anonymous wrote:My cousin's ex husband made up stuff about her when he was cheating. He himself in the face and called the cops complaining she hit him. Fortunately a neighbor caught it on their ring camera but she still had an arrest on her record. He kept claiming their daughter wasn't his until she got a court ordered DNA test. Such a shithead.


Did he get in trouble for falsifying his account and causing her to get arrest arrested and was wasting police time?
Anonymous
Post 07/19/2025 11:49     Subject: Friend is cheating on apparently villainous wife
It’s possible he wanted to cheat, and then started spinning this narrative to others and even to himself to “justify” the affair.

Or, as I know from my own marriage, from the outside, you never know what’s going on inside a marriage. But cheating is not the answer and if he has a real problem with his marriage, he should either try to fix the marriage or get out of the marriage. Not have a messy affair. And the friend who is having an affair with him has zero excuse.
Anonymous
Post 07/19/2025 11:46     Subject: Friend is cheating on apparently villainous wife
Anonymous wrote:My friend has been complaining about his wife over the past few months. Saying that she is crazy and unstable and that she runs him out of the house. He feels emotionally abused. We have all known her for the past 5 years. She seems friendly and not at all like she’d be dominating him behind the scenes. He is now cheating on her with a mutual friend and other women saying she broke him down.

How much of his actions are justifiable? How much of what he says is true?


He was laying the ground work to excuse his cheating.

I eventually met the woman my exH had an emotional affair with. He told her I was a hood rat with low IQ that he had saved. She was very surprised to learn his description didn’t match.
Anonymous
Post 07/19/2025 11:39     Subject: Re:Friend is cheating on apparently villainous wife
Anonymous wrote:My close friend cheated on his villainous wife and I applaud him for it. He finally has joy in his life again.

Even my wife said good for him.

I'd feel the same way if a woman was cheating on her physically abusive husband


You cheer cheating instead of recommending they just end the marriage? If you have an abusive or horrible partner, you divorce.

Cheating is not justified when you live in a country where you can just separate and divorce. Cheating is villainous.

Anonymous
Post 07/19/2025 11:39     Subject: Re:Friend is cheating on apparently villainous wife
Anonymous wrote:My close friend cheated on his villainous wife and I applaud him for it. He finally has joy in his life again.

Even my wife said good for him.

I'd feel the same way if a woman was cheating on her physically abusive husband


Your gross. They can divorce. And cheating on someone physically abusive is a death sentence. Just get out.
Anonymous
Post 07/19/2025 11:33     Subject: Friend is cheating on apparently villainous wife
Tell the wife.
Anonymous
Post 07/19/2025 11:30     Subject: Re:Friend is cheating on apparently villainous wife
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Poor baby. I guess he is just too beaten down to file for divorce so he has to stick his pee pee into another woman to get courage.


And a friend in the group. These people are messy and trashy I'd distance myself


Exactly! +1
Anonymous
Post 07/19/2025 10:56     Subject: Friend is cheating on apparently villainous wife
My cousin's ex husband made up stuff about her when he was cheating. He himself in the face and called the cops complaining she hit him. Fortunately a neighbor caught it on their ring camera but she still had an arrest on her record. He kept claiming their daughter wasn't his until she got a court ordered DNA test. Such a shithead.
Anonymous
Post 07/19/2025 10:52     Subject: Friend is cheating on apparently villainous wife
He's lying.
Anonymous
Post 07/19/2025 10:28     Subject: Friend is cheating on apparently villainous wife
I do not judge cheating since I don't know what goes on behind closed doors.

But I would rather not socialize with a cheating couple. And I would press any cheater to come clean with their spouse.
Anonymous
Post 07/19/2025 10:22     Subject: Re:Friend is cheating on apparently villainous wife
My close friend cheated on his villainous wife and I applaud him for it. He finally has joy in his life again.

Even my wife said good for him.

I'd feel the same way if a woman was cheating on her physically abusive husband
Anonymous
Post 07/18/2025 20:50     Subject: Friend is cheating on apparently villainous wife
Anonymous wrote:My friend just did this to my other friend. I’ll never talk to him again and no story or spin of his will convince me that he’s anything less than the lowest form of life.


That’s how people with integrity react to this sort of thing.
Anonymous
Post 07/18/2025 20:46     Subject: Friend is cheating on apparently villainous wife
Fine with me.
Anonymous
Post 07/18/2025 20:46     Subject: Re:Friend is cheating on apparently villainous wife
Villainous wife here. AMA.
Anonymous
Post 07/18/2025 20:43     Subject: Friend is cheating on apparently villainous wife
Anonymous wrote:My friend has been complaining about his wife over the past few months. Saying that she is crazy and unstable and that she runs him out of the house. He feels emotionally abused. We have all known her for the past 5 years. She seems friendly and not at all like she’d be dominating him behind the scenes. He is now cheating on her with a mutual friend and other women saying she broke him down.

How much of his actions are justifiable? How much of what he says is true?

Cheaters lie like rugs.