You sound really difficult to live with OP. No, you can’t make him use the cpap. If you don’t want to wash the extra dishes, just don’t do it. Your way is not the only way to do things in life.

Anonymous wrote:Strap it to your face and see if you’d enjoy sleeping with it. My DH has one too, rarely uses it. He’s in the process of testing to see if he could do the Inspire implant instead.

As a man who uses one.. it’s fine. I use a nasal pillow and the breathing through my nose puts me to sleep in about 6 minutes. It’s really not bad and its vastly preferable to all the health problems from not using it.

Major turn off.

It warrants discussion, but ultimately - you can’t change him. You can, however, set some boundaries- tell him you will start setting aside money of your own for long term care that he will need when apnea effects catch up to him, or for you and kids to live on in case of his premature death.