Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I work with a married lady who touches everyone. She is always squeezing people's arms, rubbing their backs. Once she undid my ponytail and redid it!!
Is she from another culture?

This is cute!

no it isn't

She likes the sexual attention and electricity but she might not be up for an affair. A lot of women like to flirt like this.

She wants you to beat them cheeks. Do it.

You're just hyper aware and she's a flirty person. It's nothing. But if you don't want her to touch you, you should speak up.

You sound scared as if you have been locked up the last 10 years.

Take her to a Coldplay concert next.

I have weekly interactions where women (who are strangers) will touch my arm, hand or chest within 10 minutes of meeting. They usually seem to be surprised they’ve done it immediately after doing so.

You’re not necessarily being invited for more but you have a fractionally better chance of having your advance welcomed if you tried,but that’s it. Some of us just have it.

Anonymous wrote:Don't do it.

Then ask yourself why you would even entertain this type of situation.

I’m not, I don’t cross the line. Just want to understand, be prepared

Anonymous wrote:OP, not sure what to tell you. Conversely, I'm a married woman who recently had coffee with a single guy to talk about an organization we're both involved with.

He gave a couple of hugs, and some arm touching, and I also don't know what to make of it.

PP is correct that some people are just touchy by nature.

you must be OP's coworker!!

What if he creates a nicer messy bun?