Anonymous
07/19/2025 15:59
Subject: Joy after going low contact with toxic sibling
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:If you are truly free and full of joy, why post about it and spend more of your life on talking about a toxic relationship to strangers? You still sound enmeshed.
Because it feels fantastic!
You did not have to read this post. You can make a decision not to comment, not to read, etc, etc. Are you the same poster who keeps posting critical comments?
OP
That was my first post on this thread. I think you are deceiving yourself about truly feeling free.
Anonymous
07/19/2025 14:37
Subject: Joy after going low contact with toxic sibling
Anonymous wrote:I have gray rocked my brother and could not be happier. I reach out to his wife, but almost completely ignore him.
That's wonderful! Kudos to you for making the leap!
OP
Anonymous
07/19/2025 14:36
Subject: Joy after going low contact with toxic sibling
Anonymous wrote:If you are truly free and full of joy, why post about it and spend more of your life on talking about a toxic relationship to strangers? You still sound enmeshed.
Because it feels fantastic!
You did not have to read this post. You can make a decision not to comment, not to read, etc, etc. Are you the same poster who keeps posting critical comments?
OP
Anonymous
07/19/2025 14:35
Subject: Joy after going low contact with toxic sibling
Anonymous wrote:Are you the Finally Free OP from the cancelled beach vacation thread?
Nope! My family has never done a beach vacation. They are far too cheap for that. haha
OP
Anonymous
07/19/2025 14:22
Subject: Joy after going low contact with toxic sibling
If you are truly free and full of joy, why post about it and spend more of your life on talking about a toxic relationship to strangers? You still sound enmeshed.
Anonymous
07/19/2025 12:32
Subject: Joy after going low contact with toxic sibling
Anonymous wrote:You sound miserable, they’re probably elated to be done with you!
Feel better?
Anonymous
07/19/2025 11:07
Subject: Joy after going low contact with toxic sibling
Anonymous wrote:Are you the Finally Free OP from the cancelled beach vacation thread?
+ 1
Anonymous
07/18/2025 15:21
Subject: Joy after going low contact with toxic sibling
Are you the Finally Free OP from the cancelled beach vacation thread?
Anonymous
07/18/2025 15:16
Subject: Joy after going low contact with toxic sibling
I have gray rocked my brother and could not be happier. I reach out to his wife, but almost completely ignore him.
Anonymous
07/18/2025 10:10
Subject: Joy after going low contact with toxic sibling
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
You should now seek therapy.
I'm year three of zero contact with my mother and one of my siblings.. Therapy made it easier.
Why would I do that when I already have a therapist? lol
OP
Did you share that you were in therapy in your original post OP?
No one’ would suggest therapy if you would have shared you’re already in therapy in your initial post … LOL 🙄
So those who respond don't suggest something you're already doing.. But ok.
Why would I need to share that I see a therapist?
OP
Anonymous
07/18/2025 09:07
Subject: Joy after going low contact with toxic sibling
Anonymous wrote:Good for you, OP. Now go no contact.
I gray rocked my MIL in order to save my marriage and my sanity. I was tired of being fodder for her gossip and constant criticism and intrusive questions. Pretty much no-contact, given that we live in the same community. She’s not welcome in our house if I’m there! See her maybe 4x year at holiday or special occasions.
That's brave and smart. Well done! I'm glad you don't have to see her much.
OP
Anonymous
07/18/2025 09:02
Subject: Joy after going low contact with toxic sibling
Anonymous wrote:You sound miserable, they’re probably elated to be done with you!
The narcissist has entered the chat!
Oh, I am sure. That is probably why they call me four to six times a day. It's because they are so sick of me and elated to be "done" with me. LOL!
Their record is calling me eleven times in one day.
You yourself sound miserable to post on a board and insult someone who has put up with years of abuse. You might want to talk to someone about that and see why this post has triggered you so much.
OP
Anonymous
07/18/2025 09:00
Subject: Joy after going low contact with toxic sibling
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
You should now seek therapy.
I'm year three of zero contact with my mother and one of my siblings.. Therapy made it easier.
Why would I do that when I already have a therapist? lol
OP
Did you share that you were in therapy in your original post OP?
No one’ would suggest therapy if you would have shared you’re already in therapy in your initial post … LOL 🙄
Why would I need to share that I see a therapist?
OP
Anonymous
07/18/2025 06:46
Subject: Joy after going low contact with toxic sibling
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
You should now seek therapy.
I'm year three of zero contact with my mother and one of my siblings.. Therapy made it easier.
Why would I do that when I already have a therapist? lol
OP
Did you share that you were in therapy in your original post OP?
No one’ would suggest therapy if you would have shared you’re already in therapy in your initial post … LOL 🙄
Anonymous
07/17/2025 20:35
Subject: Joy after going low contact with toxic sibling
You sound miserable, they’re probably elated to be done with you!