Anonymous
Post 07/16/2025 06:39     Subject: Things Ex Wants Back
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:lol at a man complaining to his first wife of 15 years about the cost of fertility treatments with second wife. What a catch.


I read it as him hoping that OP also has medical problems and fertility problems so the guy doesn’t feel like he made the wrong decision.


We've both moved on. He knows I've remarried and have kids. His new wife is a decade younger than me.
Anonymous
Post 07/16/2025 04:32     Subject: Things Ex Wants Back
15 years from now the only contact I expect to have with my ex would be to joyfully attend our mutual kids wedding.

I wouldn't sit around to hear him complain about a 15 year past divorce settlement.
Anonymous
Post 07/16/2025 04:22     Subject: Things Ex Wants Back
Why would you store his stuff/crap for 15 years? And, why is he calling you? Get rid of him and his belongings. If you don’t want to see him, set a time to leave them on your front porch.
Anonymous
Post 07/16/2025 00:22     Subject: Things Ex Wants Back
Anonymous wrote:lol at a man complaining to his first wife of 15 years about the cost of fertility treatments with second wife. What a catch.


I read it as him hoping that OP also has medical problems and fertility problems so the guy doesn’t feel like he made the wrong decision.
Anonymous
Post 07/16/2025 00:01     Subject: Things Ex Wants Back
Anonymous wrote:Ok, yes ill get these things back to him. He recently bought a home one train stop away from me so we'll probably meet for drinks


Don't meet for drinks. I can't imagine this helping things. Just mail him the stuff.

Maybe he has regrets. Would you want to hear that? At best you'll get an apology. At worst, you'll reopen old wounds.
Anonymous
Post 07/15/2025 23:55     Subject: Things Ex Wants Back
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Ok, yes ill get these things back to him. He recently bought a home one train stop away from me so we'll probably meet for drinks


Why? There's literally no reason for you to be communicating together at all


He reached out ostensibly to give me a heads up he's moving a couple of streets down from me. And I guess the energy of the purchase of a home unearthed some things: latent resentment, lost treasures. We hadn't spoken for 7 years before this.
Anonymous
Post 07/15/2025 21:20     Subject: Things Ex Wants Back
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Ok, yes ill get these things back to him. He recently bought a home one train stop away from me so we'll probably meet for drinks


Why? There's literally no reason for you to be communicating together at all


+1
Anonymous
Post 07/15/2025 17:49     Subject: Things Ex Wants Back
Anonymous wrote:Ok, yes ill get these things back to him. He recently bought a home one train stop away from me so we'll probably meet for drinks


Why? There's literally no reason for you to be communicating together at all
Anonymous
Post 07/15/2025 17:48     Subject: Things Ex Wants Back
lol at a man complaining to his first wife of 15 years about the cost of fertility treatments with second wife. What a catch.
Anonymous
Post 07/15/2025 17:43     Subject: Things Ex Wants Back
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Mh ex husband contacted me out of the blue a couple of months ago to complain about our divorce settlement, his wife's medical bills, and the cost of fertility treatments. We've been divorced for 15 years and didn't have kids together.

I was clearing out a closet and found some things of his: his deceased father's gold teeth fillings and a sentimental chess set that travelled the world with him. Should i get those things back to him


Yes you should.

Do people keep gold teeth from people have passed? I've never heard this.


Honest funeral homes will return gold fillings, jewelry etc when someone is creamated


Pulling out teeth before someones cremated sounds strange to me.

Not to be morbid, but are they pulled before cremation or leftover after cremation? I have no clue what temperatures are needed for cremation or melting gold.

I think they’re left after the cremation. What else to do with them? Probably don’t want the urn rattling.
Anonymous
Post 07/15/2025 17:31     Subject: Things Ex Wants Back
I find it so strange you're even asking this. Was he an abusive jerk or something?
Anonymous
Post 07/15/2025 17:29     Subject: Things Ex Wants Back
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Mh ex husband contacted me out of the blue a couple of months ago to complain about our divorce settlement, his wife's medical bills, and the cost of fertility treatments. We've been divorced for 15 years and didn't have kids together.

I was clearing out a closet and found some things of his: his deceased father's gold teeth fillings and a sentimental chess set that travelled the world with him. Should i get those things back to him


Yes you should.

Do people keep gold teeth from people have passed? I've never heard this.


Honest funeral homes will return gold fillings, jewelry etc when someone is creamated


Pulling out teeth before someones cremated sounds strange to me.

Not to be morbid, but are they pulled before cremation or leftover after cremation? I have no clue what temperatures are needed for cremation or melting gold.
Anonymous
Post 07/15/2025 17:17     Subject: Things Ex Wants Back
Ok, yes ill get these things back to him. He recently bought a home one train stop away from me so we'll probably meet for drinks
Anonymous
Post 07/15/2025 17:14     Subject: Things Ex Wants Back
Definitely return the items. It doesn’t cost anything to be kind.
Anonymous
Post 07/15/2025 14:55     Subject: Things Ex Wants Back
Old people get crowns redone and fillings redone.

The dentist gives you the removed stuff so you can sell it as scrap gold. They don't have time to fool with giving you the value of it. And it belongs to the dental customer.

My grandma cashed a bunch in. Hers and her husbands. It was worth turning in. Maybe as much as $200.