Anonymous
Post 07/18/2025 21:26     Subject: Emotional affairs

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
An affair is an affair.


Unpopular opinion: if you can't tell your spouse the truth about it, it's cheating. Emotional affairs are cheating. Porn is cheating. Spending money and hiding it is financially cheating.


Dishonesty in general is a form of cheating or damaging to the trust dynamic.


Exactly, but the DCUM set isn't ready for that conversation.
Anonymous
Post 07/18/2025 19:47     Subject: Emotional affairs

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
An affair is an affair.


Unpopular opinion: if you can't tell your spouse the truth about it, it's cheating. Emotional affairs are cheating. Porn is cheating. Spending money and hiding it is financially cheating.


Dishonesty in general is a form of cheating or damaging to the trust dynamic.