Anonymous
Post 07/09/2025 14:39     Subject: Pitty party: how do I mature?

You may want to seek therapy or counseling OP.

It's very weird your dh doesn't want to buy a place to live. Make sure you are saving your own money under your own name, because otherwise you could end up with no assets or savings.

Make a plan for what you want to do when the kids become adults and / or finish college, especially if nothing changes. Do you have a retirement plan? A 401k?
Anonymous
Post 07/09/2025 12:38     Subject: Pitty party: how do I mature?

Get to know God. Get born again. Follow biblical instructions for life and marriage.

Get on the winning team.
Anonymous
Post 07/09/2025 12:34     Subject: Pitty party: how do I mature?

It’s not a lack of maturity. You’re in a crappy situation of not loving your husband.

I would divorce and stay in the country
Anonymous
Post 07/09/2025 12:13     Subject: Pitty party: how do I mature?

Divorce and move back to your country like you want to. Life is all about choices.
Anonymous
Post 07/09/2025 10:29     Subject: Pitty party: how do I mature?

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Anonymous
Post 07/09/2025 10:10     Subject: Pitty party: how do I mature?

Pity party