Anonymous
Post 06/17/2025 00:15     Subject: Do you allow your husband to wear gross old baseball caps?
Omg I wish this was my biggest issue
Anonymous
Post 06/17/2025 00:11     Subject: Do you allow your husband to wear gross old baseball caps?
Anonymous wrote:I wasn't sure if this is a relationship question or fashion. Am I the only one who struggles to get my husband to bin gross old hats and wear a new one? I think it's unhygienic and honestly embarrassing to wear the nasty old hats, especially in public, but he couldn't care less. Baseball caps have a short lifespan before they get smelly (bacteria), sweat stains, faded and discolored, etc. It's only $20-30, so it's not a money-thing. I just don't get it.


You're husband shouldn't wear anything you don't want him to wear. Just throw out anything you don't want him to wear. Problem solved! Besides, he should understand that he needs to check with you before he decides to wear something.
Anonymous
Post 06/16/2025 23:43     Subject: Do you allow your husband to wear gross old baseball caps?
Allow? How old are you?

Just wash them. FFS.
Anonymous
Post 06/16/2025 23:39     Subject: Re:Do you allow your husband to wear gross old baseball caps?
My husband has a yankees baseball fitted cap that is almost 10 years old and he still wears it. Unless we're going out on a date night I'll ask him to either not wear a hat or wear a newer one.

But I'll never forbid him. It's his head that wears a dirty hat not mine so what do I care.
Anonymous
Post 06/16/2025 23:34     Subject: Do you allow your husband to wear gross old baseball caps?
Yes
Anonymous
Post 06/16/2025 23:29     Subject: Do you allow your husband to wear gross old baseball caps?
I’m a wife and you couldn’t pry my 20 year old Redskins hat out of my hands. I wash it regularly and the fit is perfect
Anonymous
Post 06/16/2025 23:23     Subject: Do you allow your husband to wear gross old baseball caps?
Guy here - buy your husband some new hats and throw out the old.
Anonymous
Post 06/16/2025 23:16     Subject: Do you allow your husband to wear gross old baseball caps?
My husband wouldn’t wear them. Which is just 1!9( many reasons I married him.
Anonymous
Post 06/16/2025 20:26     Subject: Do you allow your husband to wear gross old baseball caps?
Anonymous wrote:The simple solution is to simply make them dissappear. They'll ask about it a couple times and then just assume it's been lost.


Not cool.
Anonymous
Post 06/16/2025 20:20     Subject: Re:Do you allow your husband to wear gross old baseball caps?
Allow?

My DH must have 100 of them. It is annoying. I found a place to store them (actually a shoe rack but works great as a hat rack) and I just toss them there when he leaves them lying around.

I do not wash them or otherwise deal with them.
Anonymous
Post 06/16/2025 19:55     Subject: Do you allow your husband to wear gross old baseball caps?
The simple solution is to simply make them dissappear. They'll ask about it a couple times and then just assume it's been lost.
Anonymous
Post 06/16/2025 19:48     Subject: Do you allow your husband to wear gross old baseball caps?
Anonymous wrote:Wash them

Put them on the top shelf of the dishwasher and wash them. They don’t lose their shape in the dishwasher.
Anonymous
Post 06/16/2025 19:46     Subject: Re:Do you allow your husband to wear gross old baseball caps?
Anonymous wrote:I don't "allow" my husband to do anything. He is a grown man and does what he wants.

A wife with good sense!
Anonymous
Post 06/16/2025 17:42     Subject: Do you allow your husband to wear gross old baseball caps?
Anonymous wrote:I wasn't sure if this is a relationship question or fashion. Am I the only one who struggles to get my husband to bin gross old hats and wear a new one? I think it's unhygienic and honestly embarrassing to wear the nasty old hats, especially in public, but he couldn't care less. Baseball caps have a short lifespan before they get smelly (bacteria), sweat stains, faded and discolored, etc. It's only $20-30, so it's not a money-thing. I just don't get it.


Have you never heard of washing them?

Also, "allow your husband...." that's hilarious. You are headed to a divorce when he gets a younger easier going woman in his life.
Anonymous
Post 06/16/2025 15:20     Subject: Do you allow your husband to wear gross old baseball caps?
Allow?? Is your DH 12?