Anonymous
Post 06/23/2025 22:29     Subject: T20s by dating/relationship culture
The plural of anecdote is not data.

And does your kid know you are doing this “research”???
Anonymous
Post 06/16/2025 15:20     Subject: T20s by dating/relationship culture
Norte Dame!

I’m all about my son meeting a nice girl in college and getting married. We would happily provide childcare, preschool, or any support that they would find helpful. Family is the best and most important thing in life.
Anonymous
Post 06/16/2025 15:04     Subject: T20s by dating/relationship culture
Liberty University
Anonymous
Post 06/16/2025 14:38     Subject: T20s by dating/relationship culture
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I'm going to a 21 year old marriage this summer. They're marrying prior to one beginning a top law school and one an impressive job.

All the parents involved got married at 30+ (my friends).



Actually make that two 21 year old r weddings. I totally spaced on the second.
Both of these kids are starting medical school after attending an Ivy. Parents who are my friends also got married in their early 30s.


Starter marriages


I'm worried this is the case

When the $h!t hits the fan as it does in any marriage occasionally, I think many of this group will walk.

Even with parental support or in some cases caused by parental support
Anonymous
Post 06/16/2025 14:16     Subject: T20s by dating/relationship culture
Anonymous wrote:Let’s rank t20s on dating/relationship culture

As apps die out and in-person dating is become in again as well as younger marriages, which t20s have the best dating/relationship culture?

I’ll start:

Penn is terrible. It’s the most “only fans” of the Ivy League


Caltech is #1 by far!
Anonymous
Post 06/16/2025 12:10     Subject: T20s by dating/relationship culture
Anonymous wrote:https://www.ivycoach.com/the-ivy-coach-blog/ivy-league/ivy-league-marriages/


Makes sense

As a guy, dartmouth and Princeton girls were the hottest and ones you would want to take home

But I have a soft spot for Eli’s - so quirked up
Anonymous
Post 06/16/2025 11:42     Subject: T20s by dating/relationship culture
Do dcum moms control everything?

College destination, and now dating life?

How much is too much?
Anonymous
Post 06/16/2025 09:54     Subject: T20s by dating/relationship culture
https://www.ivycoach.com/the-ivy-coach-blog/ivy-league/ivy-league-marriages/
Anonymous
Post 06/16/2025 08:11     Subject: T20s by dating/relationship culture
Y’all really need to get a life. This thread is weird and pathetic even for the college forum. And that’s saying a lot.
Anonymous
Post 06/16/2025 08:04     Subject: T20s by dating/relationship culture
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I'm going to a 21 year old marriage this summer. They're marrying prior to one beginning a top law school and one an impressive job.

All the parents involved got married at 30+ (my friends).



Actually make that two 21 year old r weddings. I totally spaced on the second.
Both of these kids are starting medical school after attending an Ivy. Parents who are my friends also got married in their early 30s.


Starter marriages
Anonymous
Post 06/16/2025 07:42     Subject: T20s by dating/relationship culture
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:In what world are younger marriages in again? The trend has only been in one direction for decades.


In umc circles

That’s been my observation and also been corroborated in the relationship thread

Gen z is not like the Millennials


It’s complete bullshit. UMC people are more likely to marry and the median age for marriage but again is at the highest it’s ever been for men and women. 29.5 for men and 28.5 for women.

There always have and always will be people marrying at 21 or 22…but anecdotes are worthless.



+1 and it’s even higher for people with degrees and especially advanced degrees, and on the east coast compared to the Midwest and south.
Anonymous
Post 06/16/2025 07:28     Subject: T20s by dating/relationship culture
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:In what world are younger marriages in again? The trend has only been in one direction for decades.


In umc circles

That’s been my observation and also been corroborated in the relationship thread

Gen z is not like the Millennials


It’s complete bullshit. UMC people are more likely to marry and the median age for marriage but again is at the highest it’s ever been for men and women. 29.5 for men and 28.5 for women.

There always have and always will be people marrying at 21 or 22…but anecdotes are worthless.

Anonymous
Post 06/16/2025 03:03     Subject: T20s by dating/relationship culture
Southern Oregon University
Anonymous
Post 06/16/2025 00:19     Subject: T20s by dating/relationship culture
How would a DCUM parent even know this?