Anonymous
Post 06/14/2025 12:16     Subject: Husband rejecting sex
He’s gay.
Anonymous
Post 06/14/2025 10:19     Subject: Husband rejecting sex
Anonymous wrote:He's cheating. He's not that tired of he has a 2 day need. Surprise him at his next trip if you are so confident he isn't cheating.


This.
Anonymous
Post 06/14/2025 09:39     Subject: Husband rejecting sex
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Have you tried doing more chores around the house?


I do almost all the chores around the house and most of the childcare.


Well, DCUM says more chores is always the answer to get your partner more interested in sex.


People just chime in with what the answer is for them. It’s not your answer, fine. It IS the answer for some people.

In that same vein, maybe it’s worth telling your husband that you want him to look for a different job that doesn’t wear him out so much. That you would prefer to have less money and more sex/better marriage.
Anonymous
Post 06/14/2025 09:35     Subject: Husband rejecting sex
are you all getting old? we slowed down...
Anonymous
Post 06/14/2025 09:31     Subject: Husband rejecting sex
He's cheating. He's not that tired of he has a 2 day need. Surprise him at his next trip if you are so confident he isn't cheating.
Anonymous
Post 06/14/2025 08:29     Subject: Husband rejecting sex
If he was sitting on his phone and just killing time, I'd maybe be worried. If he is legitimately falling asleep, let it go. He is probably exhausted.
Anonymous
Post 06/14/2025 08:27     Subject: Husband rejecting sex
Why are you so sure he's not cheating?
Anonymous
Post 06/14/2025 08:23     Subject: Husband rejecting sex
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Weird behavior since he’s always up for sex. You know that .. Now dig into your suspicions.


Nope, his body, his choice.


No one is debating that point. We alllllllllll KNOW this.
Anonymous
Post 06/14/2025 07:12     Subject: Husband rejecting sex
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Have you tried doing more chores around the house?


I do almost all the chores around the house and most of the childcare.


Are you really listening when he speaks?
Anonymous
Post 06/13/2025 20:56     Subject: Husband rejecting sex
Do you just lay there during sex probably gotten stale
Anonymous
Post 06/13/2025 20:12     Subject: Husband rejecting sex
How old is he? My husband's drive slowed down in our 50s.
Anonymous
Post 06/13/2025 19:19     Subject: Husband rejecting sex
In 27 years I can not think of one time I rejected my wife.
Anonymous
Post 06/13/2025 17:00     Subject: Husband rejecting sex
Anonymous wrote:My husband has always been up for sex. I only remember one time he rejected my advances. He has been working out of town all week and has been rejecting my advances often. This has happened two weeks in a row. We do have sex but he comes home tired and takes a naps or goes to bed and doesn’t want sex until the next night. I know he wouldn’t cheat on me but I am a little worried that he is rejecting sex.


Give him a week to get his act together. If nothing changes, dump him and move on. You won't regret it.
Anonymous
Post 06/13/2025 16:12     Subject: Husband rejecting sex
Anonymous wrote:Weird behavior since he’s always up for sex. You know that .. Now dig into your suspicions.


Nope, his body, his choice.
Anonymous
Post 06/13/2025 16:08     Subject: Husband rejecting sex
Weird behavior since he’s always up for sex. You know that .. Now dig into your suspicions.