Anonymous
Post 06/09/2025 17:30     Subject: What is your DH's AP like?
She's a younger version of me. It's pretty creepy
Anonymous
Post 06/09/2025 17:30     Subject: What is your DH's AP like?
Anonymous wrote:Officemate co-worker. A decade younger, but homely and pudgy (the nicest thing all my friends said about her). He definitely affaired down- less attractive, less intelligent, less successful. It's what insecure, unaccomplished guys look for.


She was nice to him and gave him sex. That's all it took to get him.

And that's all you had to do to keep him.
Anonymous
Post 06/09/2025 17:29     Subject: What is your DH's AP like?
Anonymous wrote:I finally learned some things about DH's and she's like a stereotype. 30s, single, no kids, regular job.


You forgot that she likes to have sex with him.
Anonymous
Post 06/09/2025 17:22     Subject: What is your DH's AP like?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Officemate co-worker. A decade younger, but homely and pudgy (the nicest thing all my friends said about her). He definitely affaired down- less attractive, less intelligent, less successful. It's what insecure, unaccomplished guys look for.
They both pursued divorces. 2 betrayed spouses and 6 kids lives f'ed up. Complete selfishness



No you helped f up those kids lives he left for a reason you are part of that reason

Looks like the AP got triggered.
Anonymous
Post 06/09/2025 17:21     Subject: What is your DH's AP like?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Officemate co-worker. A decade younger, but homely and pudgy (the nicest thing all my friends said about her). He definitely affaired down- less attractive, less intelligent, less successful. It's what insecure, unaccomplished guys look for.
They both pursued divorces. 2 betrayed spouses and 6 kids lives f'ed up. Complete selfishness



No you helped f up those kids lives he left for a reason you are part of that reason
People with any self-worth ask for a divorce when they are not happy in a marriage before sneaking around on the side testing the waters first.
Anonymous
Post 06/09/2025 17:19     Subject: What is your DH's AP like?
Anonymous wrote:Officemate co-worker. A decade younger, but homely and pudgy (the nicest thing all my friends said about her). He definitely affaired down- less attractive, less intelligent, less successful. It's what insecure, unaccomplished guys look for.
They both pursued divorces. 2 betrayed spouses and 6 kids lives f'ed up. Complete selfishness



No you helped f up those kids lives he left for a reason you are part of that reason
Anonymous
Post 06/09/2025 17:12     Subject: What is your DH's AP like?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I finally learned some things about DH's and she's like a stereotype. 30s, single, no kids, regular job.
That not what I think of a stereotypical AP.

My ex's AP was pretty normal. From what I've been told, she's just a regular person, and they act super lovey dovey together. She has a good career and makes a good living, and has one kid the same age as mine and ex's. They are married now.

Is she younger?
No, not really. I think she's 2 or 3 years younger. Other than being the AP there's nothing really to hate about her. And that took a lot of therapy and time and healing for me to say.
Anonymous
Post 06/09/2025 17:09     Subject: What is your DH's AP like?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I finally learned some things about DH's and she's like a stereotype. 30s, single, no kids, regular job.
That not what I think of a stereotypical AP.

My ex's AP was pretty normal. From what I've been told, she's just a regular person, and they act super lovey dovey together. She has a good career and makes a good living, and has one kid the same age as mine and ex's. They are married now.


Women always say blame the DH and I agree. But boy women do know how to get another woman's man though and show no remorse or regret about doing so.
I'm the person you quoted. NONE AT ALL. My ex and his AP went public on social media days after he moved out of our home, were out and about at events together. They had zero shame or care. We had been together over 20 years.


Church. My friend's husband met married AP at church. Apparently they did not read the 10 Commandments.
Anonymous
Post 06/09/2025 17:04     Subject: What is your DH's AP like?
are they still together?
Anonymous
Post 06/09/2025 16:46     Subject: What is your DH's AP like?
Anonymous wrote:Officemate co-worker. A decade younger, but homely and pudgy (the nicest thing all my friends said about her). He definitely affaired down- less attractive, less intelligent, less successful. It's what insecure, unaccomplished guys look for.
They both pursued divorces. 2 betrayed spouses and 6 kids lives f'ed up. Complete selfishness


They sound like trash, but it's naive to think your friends were honest about you vs. the AP.
Anonymous
Post 06/09/2025 16:26     Subject: What is your DH's AP like?
Officemate co-worker. A decade younger, but homely and pudgy (the nicest thing all my friends said about her). He definitely affaired down- less attractive, less intelligent, less successful. It's what insecure, unaccomplished guys look for.
They both pursued divorces. 2 betrayed spouses and 6 kids lives f'ed up. Complete selfishness
Anonymous
Post 06/09/2025 16:19     Subject: What is your DH's AP like?
It’s been a decade and they didn’t last after I threw him out, but she was on track team at one of the local colleges.
Anonymous
Post 06/09/2025 16:13     Subject: What is your DH's AP like?
20s, single, no kids, regular job
Anonymous
Post 06/09/2025 15:49     Subject: Re:What is your DH's AP like?
Your mom.
Anonymous
Post 06/09/2025 15:49     Subject: What is your DH's AP like?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I finally learned some things about DH's and she's like a stereotype. 30s, single, no kids, regular job.
That not what I think of a stereotypical AP.

My ex's AP was pretty normal. From what I've been told, she's just a regular person, and they act super lovey dovey together. She has a good career and makes a good living, and has one kid the same age as mine and ex's. They are married now.


Women always say blame the DH and I agree. But boy women do know how to get another woman's man though and show no remorse or regret about doing so.


If she can get "my man", he isn't my man, and she can have him.