Anonymous
06/03/2025 23:30
Subject: DH having emotional affair
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Op here- it's def not platonic
He has lots of female friends and I'm 100% fine w that.
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He doesn't know how much I know but knows I'm suspicious and knows I know they talked on the phone
I'm sorry, OP. Who earns more?
Him but business doing very poorly. Zero chance we could afford divorce right now
People divorce even when they're poor, OP. Don't think this protects you. And staying just because you want to keep a certain lifestyle is really sad. He needs to arrive, somehow, at the realization that this emotional affair is not good for him.
Anonymous
06/03/2025 23:29
Subject: DH having emotional affair
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Op here- it's def not platonic
He has lots of female friends and I'm 100% fine w that.
Capture screenshots.
They're deleted now
So he knows you know?
He doesn't know how much I know but knows I'm suspicious and knows I know they talked on the phone
I'm sorry, OP. Who earns more?
Him but business doing very poorly. Zero chance we could afford divorce right now
He can feel all he wants, it would break us. But I guess he could separate
He might have a different opinion.
Anonymous
06/03/2025 23:26
Subject: DH having emotional affair
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Op here- it's def not platonic
He has lots of female friends and I'm 100% fine w that.
Capture screenshots.
They're deleted now
So he knows you know?
He doesn't know how much I know but knows I'm suspicious and knows I know they talked on the phone
I'm sorry, OP. Who earns more?
Him but business doing very poorly. Zero chance we could afford divorce right now
He might have a different opinion.
Anonymous
06/03/2025 23:24
Subject: DH having emotional affair
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Op here- it's def not platonic
He has lots of female friends and I'm 100% fine w that.
Capture screenshots.
They're deleted now
So he knows you know?
He doesn't know how much I know but knows I'm suspicious and knows I know they talked on the phone
I'm sorry, OP. Who earns more?
Him but business doing very poorly. Zero chance we could afford divorce right now
Anonymous
06/03/2025 23:23
Subject: DH having emotional affair
Emotional affairs can be very addictive if you are struggling with feeling empty. I think they say more about where you are emotionally than where your marriage is.
I had a long running emotional affair and it spanned highs and lows in my marriage. In my mind I called it a friendship but it was definitely more meaningful to me than that. My husband knew about it and ignored the whole thing and eventually I cut off contact with the guy on my own because it was just an exhausting and fraught relationship, not a healthy friendship.
I had a long running emotional affair and it spanned highs and lows in my marriage. In my mind I called it a friendship but it was definitely more meaningful to me than that. My husband knew about it and ignored the whole thing and eventually I cut off contact with the guy on my own because it was just an exhausting and fraught relationship, not a healthy friendship.
Anonymous
06/03/2025 23:18
Subject: DH having emotional affair
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Op here- it's def not platonic
He has lots of female friends and I'm 100% fine w that.
Capture screenshots.
They're deleted now
So he knows you know?
He doesn't know how much I know but knows I'm suspicious and knows I know they talked on the phone
I'm sorry, OP. Who earns more?
Anonymous
06/03/2025 23:13
Subject: DH having emotional affair
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Op here- it's def not platonic
He has lots of female friends and I'm 100% fine w that.
Capture screenshots.
They're deleted now
So he knows you know?
He doesn't know how much I know but knows I'm suspicious and knows I know they talked on the phone
Anonymous
06/03/2025 23:12
Subject: DH having emotional affair
What does "finances horrible" mean? Do you work? Are you funding college?
Anonymous
06/03/2025 23:08
Subject: DH having emotional affair
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Op here- it's def not platonic
He has lots of female friends and I'm 100% fine w that.
Capture screenshots.
They're deleted now
So he knows you know?
Anonymous
06/03/2025 23:07
Subject: DH having emotional affair
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Op here- it's def not platonic
He has lots of female friends and I'm 100% fine w that.
Capture screenshots.
They're deleted now
Anonymous
06/03/2025 23:05
Subject: DH having emotional affair
Anonymous wrote:Op here- it's def not platonic
He has lots of female friends and I'm 100% fine w that.
Capture screenshots.
Anonymous
06/03/2025 23:05
Subject: DH having emotional affair
Even if it’s innocuous would anyone really want their spouse texting someone else nonstop? Slippery slope.
Anonymous
06/03/2025 23:04
Subject: DH having emotional affair
Anonymous wrote:Do you have evidence that it's romantic, and not friendly?
Yes
Anonymous
06/03/2025 23:03
Subject: DH having emotional affair
Op here- it's def not platonic
He has lots of female friends and I'm 100% fine w that.
He has lots of female friends and I'm 100% fine w that.
Anonymous
06/03/2025 22:57
Subject: DH having emotional affair
Do you have evidence that it's romantic, and not friendly?