Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:You don’t deserve him. Respect.
Would you be fine being in a new multi year relationship and never having sex? Never knowing what sex is like before you marry that person?
NP. That was me and my spouse. Married 30 years.
Anonymous wrote:Are there other things you can do without PIV or is all that off the table? Intimacy and pleasure can be had/felt without sex.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:You don’t deserve him. Respect.
Would you be fine being in a new multi year relationship and never having sex? Never knowing what sex is like before you marry that person?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Well, at least he will likely want to marry soon rather than serial date. Would you want to marry him? Is he caring, kind, smart, attractive, good job, shared values and beliefs? If he is the whole package, go take a cold shower.
I’m human. I want sex. We have been together 8 months and man it’s hard. He is a really great guy but he is not fast tracking marriage. His ideal timeline is marriage in 2-3 years.
He’s just not that into you. If he is celibate really liked you he would have popped the question AT LEAST 2 months ago, or sooner and you’d already be married and having sex by now.
Anonymous wrote:DH here. Is third base OK?
I wasn’t a wait until marriage type, but as it happened, the first girl I went all the way with was the one I married.
Still good after more than a decade.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Well, at least he will likely want to marry soon rather than serial date. Would you want to marry him? Is he caring, kind, smart, attractive, good job, shared values and beliefs? If he is the whole package, go take a cold shower.
I’m human. I want sex. We have been together 8 months and man it’s hard. He is a really great guy but he is not fast tracking marriage. His ideal timeline is marriage in 2-3 years.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I’m seeing this guy I really like who told me he has decided to be celibate until marriage. I’ve been trying to be understanding but it is getting pretty hard for me to not want sex with him. I think about sex constantly. I don’t know if I can do this..
Dump him and move on. He’s not considerate of your needs. This will be a pattern if you marry him. Save yourself now.
Anonymous wrote:He’s gay
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Well, at least he will likely want to marry soon rather than serial date. Would you want to marry him? Is he caring, kind, smart, attractive, good job, shared values and beliefs? If he is the whole package, go take a cold shower.
except, are his fingers short? I would want a sneak peak at whats in store
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:You don’t deserve him. Respect.
Would you be fine being in a new multi year relationship and never having sex? Never knowing what sex is like before you marry that person?