Anonymous
Post 06/01/2025 05:17     Subject: Jewelry to wear with simple black midi dress for piano recital

Anonymous wrote:If you have pearls or diamonds, I think that would be a nice contrasting look with the black.


Pearls, simple setting. Elegant.

No diamonds, it is too early in the day and it’s not appropriate.
Anonymous
Post 06/01/2025 04:38     Subject: Jewelry to wear with simple black midi dress for piano recital

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP,

Sorry for being blunt, but I've spent 15 years viewing children's musical performances, and occasionally helping out as volunteer, for solo recitals, competitions, auditions, full orchestral or choral concerts, anywhere from small halls/churches to Carnegie Hall... and all this is completely moot. Wear what you want. No one cares except you.



OP here. You misunderstand. I'm not trying to dress to impress people at the recital. I just want some jewelry to liven up this outfit because *I* think it would look better. It's for me. I am wearing something that I will be comfortable in but it is feeling a bit dour and I just want a necklace or something so that I feel more dressed up.


PP you replied to. I felt there was an undercurrent of "what will people think" in your first post, but regardless, none of it matters. We don't know your tastes or what's in your jewelry box, or your budget if you want to buy something, so this thread is pretty pointless. Wear what makes you happy, and next time make sure there is no way to misunderstand your intent when you ask a question.


You must be so exhausting and annoying IRL.
Anonymous
Post 06/01/2025 04:24     Subject: Jewelry to wear with simple black midi dress for piano recital

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP,

Sorry for being blunt, but I've spent 15 years viewing children's musical performances, and occasionally helping out as volunteer, for solo recitals, competitions, auditions, full orchestral or choral concerts, anywhere from small halls/churches to Carnegie Hall... and all this is completely moot. Wear what you want. No one cares except you.



OP here. You misunderstand. I'm not trying to dress to impress people at the recital. I just want some jewelry to liven up this outfit because *I* think it would look better. It's for me. I am wearing something that I will be comfortable in but it is feeling a bit dour and I just want a necklace or something so that I feel more dressed up.


PP you replied to. I felt there was an undercurrent of "what will people think" in your first post, but regardless, none of it matters. We don't know your tastes or what's in your jewelry box, or your budget if you want to buy something, so this thread is pretty pointless. Wear what makes you happy, and next time make sure there is no way to misunderstand your intent when you ask a question.



How much more clear could OP be? She said she wants to dress up a black dress for a family photo.
Anonymous
Post 06/01/2025 00:54     Subject: Jewelry to wear with simple black midi dress for piano recital

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP,

Sorry for being blunt, but I've spent 15 years viewing children's musical performances, and occasionally helping out as volunteer, for solo recitals, competitions, auditions, full orchestral or choral concerts, anywhere from small halls/churches to Carnegie Hall... and all this is completely moot. Wear what you want. No one cares except you.



OP here. You misunderstand. I'm not trying to dress to impress people at the recital. I just want some jewelry to liven up this outfit because *I* think it would look better. It's for me. I am wearing something that I will be comfortable in but it is feeling a bit dour and I just want a necklace or something so that I feel more dressed up.


PP you replied to. I felt there was an undercurrent of "what will people think" in your first post, but regardless, none of it matters. We don't know your tastes or what's in your jewelry box, or your budget if you want to buy something, so this thread is pretty pointless. Wear what makes you happy, and next time make sure there is no way to misunderstand your intent when you ask a question.


NP. I understood OP's intent with her original question.
Anonymous
Post 06/01/2025 00:39     Subject: Jewelry to wear with simple black midi dress for piano recital

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP,

Sorry for being blunt, but I've spent 15 years viewing children's musical performances, and occasionally helping out as volunteer, for solo recitals, competitions, auditions, full orchestral or choral concerts, anywhere from small halls/churches to Carnegie Hall... and all this is completely moot. Wear what you want. No one cares except you.



OP here. You misunderstand. I'm not trying to dress to impress people at the recital. I just want some jewelry to liven up this outfit because *I* think it would look better. It's for me. I am wearing something that I will be comfortable in but it is feeling a bit dour and I just want a necklace or something so that I feel more dressed up.


PP you replied to. I felt there was an undercurrent of "what will people think" in your first post, but regardless, none of it matters. We don't know your tastes or what's in your jewelry box, or your budget if you want to buy something, so this thread is pretty pointless. Wear what makes you happy, and next time make sure there is no way to misunderstand your intent when you ask a question.

Anonymous
Post 06/01/2025 00:05     Subject: Jewelry to wear with simple black midi dress for piano recital

Anonymous wrote:I think a paper clip style chain in silver would look nice and kind of edgy.


OP -- this is a good suggestion, thanks.
Anonymous
Post 06/01/2025 00:04     Subject: Jewelry to wear with simple black midi dress for piano recital

Anonymous wrote:I think a paper clip style chain in silver would look nice and kind of edgy.


I'm glad you said this. This is ART! People are suggesting pearls like this is a day in court or something.
Anonymous
Post 05/31/2025 23:58     Subject: Jewelry to wear with simple black midi dress for piano recital

I think a paper clip style chain in silver would look nice and kind of edgy.
Anonymous
Post 05/31/2025 23:50     Subject: Jewelry to wear with simple black midi dress for piano recital

Anonymous wrote:Summery scarf is my thought.

Statement necklaces are not popular right now, although I think a turquoise necklace might be nice.

https://mcys.co/42zq2PY


That looks very old lady-ish.
Anonymous
Post 05/31/2025 23:48     Subject: Jewelry to wear with simple black midi dress for piano recital

OP here. Obviously I made a mistake in including any backstory here, as some of you are weirdly hung up on it.

I just want something colorful to wear with a black dress that will pop in pictures. I actually have a job and don't normally focus that much on what I wear but would like to look nice for this because we have a bunch of family coming into town and will take photos and I want to look nice for those.

Good lord, I'd have gotten less obnoxious responses if I'd shouted this question out a second story window. What a bunch of haters (thank you to those of you who offered good faith suggestions).
Anonymous
Post 05/31/2025 23:35     Subject: Jewelry to wear with simple black midi dress for piano recital

You’re asking this question about being a mom on a stage for a bunch of kids who are young enough they need help walking across stage?

Op, you need a job. This is a pathetically sad thing to be spending any time thinking about,
Anonymous
Post 05/31/2025 23:20     Subject: Jewelry to wear with simple black midi dress for piano recital

Anonymous wrote:OP,

Sorry for being blunt, but I've spent 15 years viewing children's musical performances, and occasionally helping out as volunteer, for solo recitals, competitions, auditions, full orchestral or choral concerts, anywhere from small halls/churches to Carnegie Hall... and all this is completely moot. Wear what you want. No one cares except you.



OP here. You misunderstand. I'm not trying to dress to impress people at the recital. I just want some jewelry to liven up this outfit because *I* think it would look better. It's for me. I am wearing something that I will be comfortable in but it is feeling a bit dour and I just want a necklace or something so that I feel more dressed up.
Anonymous
Post 05/31/2025 22:58     Subject: Jewelry to wear with simple black midi dress for piano recital

I’d wear earrings like these: https://tnuck.com/products/drop-pearl-amelia-hoop-earrings?variant=46109289578718

And a bracelet like this: https://tnuck.com/products/gold-sofia-mega-bracelet?variant=44807012876510

I’m sure you can find cheaper versions of these on amazon or etsy.