Men are dumb. So many say they want women who don’t wear makeup / are natural etc and then fawn over the very “dolled up” women. They don’t even know what they want and usually just settle for whoever will sleep with them.

We live in an affluent neighborhood with many different types of rich wives. There are physician wives who look average. There are lawyer wives who look average and frumpy, look sharp and well put together and former lawyers who married partners. There are women who are very fit who were former college athletes. There are second wives who are like OP’s description who think we are jealous of them, but not.

I don’t think these types of women are the types men want to marry and have children with.

Anonymous wrote:Meaning that she gets lash extensions, dyes or bleached her hair, wears pushup bras, works out, May wear colored contact lenses, and bleaches her smile and may have had plastic surgery? Does it matter or no? I ask because women in this forum especially be extra critical of all those things.

When done well, I don’t think men notice that a woman dyes her hair, bleaches her teeth, or has had cosmetic procedures/surgeries. They just see a woman who looks good.

I'm a white man from an upper middle class family. I think most women who look like that are unappealing for a long term relationship but a few look nice. I like it more on foreign women, especially Latinas. On white women that usually makes them look trashy. I don't want to date a stripper or a Trump woman.

Poster, I have to ask this question. Did your mom dress "trashy"?

Most Caucasian men I know who like the trashy look in non-Caucasians had mothers who dressed provocatively. The look appeals to them, but it feels wrong for them to find it attractive in Caucasians.

Be honest, now.

I think it's highly likely that a woman like that and I would not get along well. If she wants to do that and doesn't mind me being schlubby, we'd be fine though.

I didn't marry a woman like that though.

Anonymous wrote:Men want that alix earle look

I’m sure her stepmom gave her some excellent tips.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Meaning that she gets lash extensions, dyes or bleached her hair, wears pushup bras, works out, May wear colored contact lenses, and bleaches her smile and may have had plastic surgery? Does it matter or no? I ask because women in this forum especially be extra critical of all those things.

There’s a lot of space between women who prioritize fitness and skincare and the MAGA Barbie types.

The MAGA Barbie types have no problem finding men to date and marry them, though.

There’s a lid for every pot.

I mean, who really cares what women on this forum think? What they type can be really entertaining and sad at times tho…Live and let live. Do what makes you happy, if you want to be basic, BE basic. If you want to enhance your natural beauty, then do you.

Anonymous wrote:I'm a white man from an upper middle class family. I think most women who look like that are unappealing for a long term relationship but a few look nice. I like it more on foreign women, especially Latinas. On white women that usually makes them look trashy. I don't want to date a stripper or a Trump woman.

Troll fail.

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Anonymous wrote:Meaning that she gets lash extensions, dyes or bleached her hair, wears pushup bras, works out, May wear colored contact lenses, and bleaches her smile and may have had plastic surgery? Does it matter or no? I ask because women in this forum especially be extra critical of all those things.

There’s a lot of space between women who prioritize fitness and skincare and the MAGA Barbie types.

The MAGA Barbie types have no problem finding men to date and marry them, though.

What the heck is wrong with push up bras?

Men want that alix earle look

Anonymous wrote:Meaning that she gets lash extensions, dyes or bleached her hair, wears pushup bras, works out, May wear colored contact lenses, and bleaches her smile and may have had plastic surgery? Does it matter or no? I ask because women in this forum especially be extra critical of all those things.

There’s a lot of space between women who prioritize fitness and skincare and the MAGA Barbie types.

“Dolls herself up” sounds like a sus phrase. I know what I’m thinking.

Anonymous wrote:I'm a white man from an upper middle class family. I think most women who look like that are unappealing for a long term relationship but a few look nice. I like it more on foreign women, especially Latinas. On white women that usually makes them look trashy. I don't want to date a stripper or a Trump woman.

I wear pretty normal clothes (sweater and jeans) but I whiten my teeth, have worn lashes, wear makeup and have even had a nose job. I don't think beauty practices necessarily make you look trashy. Usually it's the choice of clothing (like, corset top, tight jeans and high heels) plus talon-like nails (which IME men don't even notice.) I do see a lot of Latinas decked out like this.