Anonymous
Post 05/23/2025 16:39     Subject: Do both partners iniate sex in your marriage?

It’s pretty mutual so hard to say who initiates. We’re in bed, start kissing, that’s that.
Anonymous
Post 05/23/2025 16:29     Subject: Do both partners iniate sex in your marriage?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:DW is naked and on all fours on the bed.


She is testing you. If you approach she will be upset because you alway pester her for sex. If you do not approach she will be upset. Best just to ignore it and slip out of the house without being seen.

No, you don’t know my DW. She’s a horny and kinky 55 year young woman!


lol!

What did I miss…? Why is this funny?
Anonymous
Post 05/23/2025 11:13     Subject: Do both partners iniate sex in your marriage?

99% me and I'm ok with that because I have a significantly higher drive than DH. Always have. He never turns me down, so I guess it works for us.
Anonymous
Post 05/23/2025 10:48     Subject: Do both partners iniate sex in your marriage?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:DW is naked and on all fours on the bed.


She is testing you. If you approach she will be upset because you alway pester her for sex. If you do not approach she will be upset. Best just to ignore it and slip out of the house without being seen.

No, you don’t know my DW. She’s a horny and kinky 55 year young woman!


lol!
Anonymous
Post 05/22/2025 21:15     Subject: Do both partners iniate sex in your marriage?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:DW is naked and on all fours on the bed.


She is testing you. If you approach she will be upset because you alway pester her for sex. If you do not approach she will be upset. Best just to ignore it and slip out of the house without being seen.

No, you don’t know my DW. She’s a horny and kinky 55 year young woman!
Anonymous
Post 05/22/2025 20:49     Subject: Do both partners iniate sex in your marriage?

Sometimes I'll drop a subtle hint that I'm interested but she gets to pick exactly when it happens. I guess that counts as me initiating?
Anonymous
Post 05/22/2025 19:48     Subject: Do both partners iniate sex in your marriage?

Anonymous wrote:If so, how do they do it? Also, what do you do to prioritize your intimate life and keep it on track?


If you need a schedule the passion is dead.
Anonymous
Post 05/22/2025 19:40     Subject: Do both partners iniate sex in your marriage?

Anonymous wrote:My wife is a freak and she is not shy about what she wants. And I'm always ready to fire. We both initiate. A few days before and after her periods I know what awaits me cause she is DTF she extra wet


You are trying too hard.
Anonymous
Post 05/22/2025 19:00     Subject: Do both partners iniate sex in your marriage?

My wife is a freak and she is not shy about what she wants. And I'm always ready to fire. We both initiate. A few days before and after her periods I know what awaits me cause she is DTF she extra wet
Anonymous
Post 05/22/2025 18:54     Subject: Do both partners iniate sex in your marriage?

Anonymous wrote:DW is naked and on all fours on the bed.


She is testing you. If you approach she will be upset because you alway pester her for sex. If you do not approach she will be upset. Best just to ignore it and slip out of the house without being seen.
Anonymous
Post 05/22/2025 18:26     Subject: Do both partners iniate sex in your marriage?

DW is naked and on all fours on the bed.
Anonymous
Post 05/22/2025 17:16     Subject: Do both partners iniate sex in your marriage?

Anonymous wrote:It’s roughly even for us and we’re about 1-2x a week and every day when on vacation. On the weekends she likes to have a glass of wine and a gummie, make dinner and have sex. I onow I’ll catch some flack from the pearl clutchers regarding thc. But, guy’s - if you haven’t had sex with your wife on a thc gummie then you’re really missing out. I was pretty shocked the first time we did it.

I take gummies and don’t notice much difference 😂
Anonymous
Post 05/22/2025 16:43     Subject: Do both partners iniate sex in your marriage?

DW initiates about 90% of the time. It used to be the reverse, but after getting rejected 10 times in a row, I stopped.

Now we barely have sex, but when we do, she almost always initiated it.
Anonymous
Post 05/22/2025 16:23     Subject: Do both partners iniate sex in your marriage?

It’s roughly even for us and we’re about 1-2x a week and every day when on vacation. On the weekends she likes to have a glass of wine and a gummie, make dinner and have sex. I onow I’ll catch some flack from the pearl clutchers regarding thc. But, guy’s - if you haven’t had sex with your wife on a thc gummie then you’re really missing out. I was pretty shocked the first time we did it.
Anonymous
Post 05/22/2025 16:08     Subject: Do both partners iniate sex in your marriage?

I am content to let DH take the lead. I never turn him down unless it’s that time of the month, but he usually knows to stay away then, LOL. On vacations we’re more even.