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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m sure I’m not the only one this has happened to in this area. He says it was his first time, yeah right.

I don’t see how I can ever trust him again. He is the bread winner in our family, I have no idea what to do

How did you “catch” him?

What does this have to do with his earning potential?

As far as what to do, obviously you need to put out more.

I thought he was having an affair, I enabled phone location and followed him one night. To my surprise it was in the back of a strip mall in Tysons at 9pm. I parked far away and watched him come out.

It is the lying that is the concern.

I would do my legal research, with a longterm place to divorce.

When oh when are women going to learn not to be totally dependent on their husbands.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sounds like you weren't 'handling' business at home.

That’s not why most men go.

Stop blaming the victim.

If you are paying for sexual services, you should not be married, unless your wife is on board with your sleaze.

Anonymous wrote:Start a career so you will have choices, OP. He could be arrested and you may lose his income.

It’s irresponsible of you not to be able to support your kids now that you know your DH can’t be relied upon.

+1

All SAHMs take note. Especially the smug ones.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Asian massage parlor 😢

Let’s not call it “Asian”, let’s say “fraudulent massage parlor” or brothel or human-trafficking sex center because that’s what it is

No, let’s call it Asian since that is how they are branded and marketed and attempts to police language and skirt around the obvious are obnoxious and silly.

Or you could say, “where you can exploit women from impoverished countries ?”

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Asian massage parlor 😢

Let’s not call it “Asian”, let’s say “fraudulent massage parlor” or brothel or human-trafficking sex center because that’s what it is

Yes please.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Asian massage parlor 😢

Let’s not call it “Asian”, let’s say “fraudulent massage parlor” or brothel or human-trafficking sex center because that’s what it is

The first two characterizations are accurate, the third one is not.

How do you know?

Cause 99% of the time when LE busts one of the AMPs, it turns out the women are there of their own free will, earning some $ so they can live a better life than they had where they came from.

Wait…..I’ve been to Asian massage places. I’ve never been offered a happy ending. But they do amazing things for my shoulders.

Anonymous wrote:Sounds like you weren't 'handling' business at home.

That’s not why most men go.

Are you sure it was a rub & tug and not just a cheap massage or a desire for innocuous physical contact?

Legit ones close at 9

Anonymous wrote:I’m sure I’m not the only one this has happened to in this area. He says it was his first time, yeah right.

I don’t see how I can ever trust him again. He is the bread winner in our family, I have no idea what to do

This seems like a troll. The AMP seems to be someone’s fixation.

Sounds like you weren't 'handling' business at home.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m sure I’m not the only one this has happened to in this area. He says it was his first time, yeah right.

I don’t see how I can ever trust him again. He is the bread winner in our family, I have no idea what to do

How did you “catch” him?

What does this have to do with his earning potential?

As far as what to do, obviously you need to put out more.

I thought he was having an affair, I enabled phone location and followed him one night. To my surprise it was in the back of a strip mall in Tysons at 9pm. I parked far away and watched him come out.

I don’t know how you want to handle it for the long-term, but you need to let him know that that place is known to authorities and subject to raids at any time. Do you have children? You need to think about how they will feel with his face plastered on the news

Start a career so you will have choices, OP. He could be arrested and you may lose his income.

It’s irresponsible of you not to be able to support your kids now that you know your DH can’t be relied upon.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Asian massage parlor 😢

Let’s not call it “Asian”, let’s say “fraudulent massage parlor” or brothel or human-trafficking sex center because that’s what it is

99 percent advertise as “Asian” so take it up with them