Personally I think a man going to a weekly massage is less normal then shaving pubs beforehand

Anonymous wrote:Trimming is normal, but shaving? That’s a bit yuck. Is that what por* actors do? It’s been a while since I’ve watched. Maybe that’s why it’s become sexualized but ew.

Do you trust your DH or not, OP?

I am a DH and I "shave" mine but it might not be what you're thinking. I use an electric razor (like a barbershop) that allows for different levels. I'm not "shaving" completely bald but I am shaving to get a trimmed appearance. I do it primarily to give DW an obstruction free playground

Trimming is normal, but shaving? That’s a bit yuck. Is that what por* actors do? It’s been a while since I’ve watched. Maybe that’s why it’s become sexualized but ew.

Do you trust your DH or not, OP?

Nope. Not normal.

Trimming is normal. I don't think a man shaving his pubes is a sign of cheating - maybe to check some kind of rash or skin irritation. Shaved pubes in men isn't a common turn on. A masseuse affair partner isn't expecting him to come bare shaven either!

A lot of men trim their pubes. It could also be coincidence. I am a woman but I don't really plan what days to do landscaping and it could also coincide with a massage or physio session day etc.

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Anonymous wrote:I think the fact that the only way you know about his pubes is from the toilet is an important detail.

Oh c’mon, married couples with busy lives aren’t all having full daylight porno performative sex like an adulterous couple at a Radisson.

Do you not change in front of each other see each other pre and pst shower? We see each other naked daily even if ther'es no porno sex

The vanity of some people never ceases to amaze me.

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Anonymous wrote:I dont know of any man who shaves his pubes.
This has got to be a troll

Yikes! Your DH must be disgusting to be intimate with then.

Wait ….no but is this an actual thing that straight men do now??
I’m early 50s and my DH has never done this. And no, I do not think my DH is disgusting for not shaving his pubic hair to look like a pre-pubescent male.
So this must be some weird millennial trend that has been normalized?

Mine is 50 and trims the area.

He is an extra service.

Most people on DCUM haven’t been near their own pubes in years, let alone someone else’s.

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Anonymous wrote:I dont know of any man who shaves his pubes.
This has got to be a troll

Yikes! Your DH must be disgusting to be intimate with then.

Wait ….no but is this an actual thing that straight men do now??
I’m early 50s and my DH has never done this. And no, I do not think my DH is disgusting for not shaving his pubic hair to look like a pre-pubescent male.
So this must be some weird millennial trend that has been normalized?

It is common for men to trim. You seem to be implying they take all of the hair off. I don’t think that’s common. But trimming? Definitely. See the PP below “trimming from a jungle to a golf course” is a good description. It’s just good hygiene. I assume you do something similar for yourself. Does your husband not even trim?

Anonymous wrote:I dont know of any man who shaves his pubes.
This has got to be a troll

Man here. I trim mine every few weeks. Not making anything bald, but reducing the jungle to a golf course.

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Anonymous wrote:I dont know of any man who shaves his pubes.
This has got to be a troll

Yikes! Your DH must be disgusting to be intimate with then.

Wait ….no but is this an actual thing that straight men do now??
I’m early 50s and my DH has never done this. And no, I do not think my DH is disgusting for not shaving his pubic hair to look like a pre-pubescent male.
So this must be some weird millennial trend that has been normalized?

Is he doing it to be with you after?