Anonymous
Post 04/23/2025 10:46     Subject: Wedding Guest Dress Code Color Instructions
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:This just seems silly because that isn't remotely the point of wedding photos and who cares what guests are wearing in photos anyway?


They seem to care more about photos than about the concept of marriage.


But I mean how often do you look at your wedding photos and, when you do, what is the thing you focus on.

Like, sure we have this one nice photo from my wedding that's framed and referenced often but specifically because my FIL died unexpectedly the next year and it's one of the last really nice photos of him dancing with his kids.


I haven't finished the album 30 years on. We have one wedding photo hanging on the wall.


I thought I was the only one! (Except I don't even have a photo on the wall)
Anonymous
Post 04/23/2025 10:24     Subject: Wedding Guest Dress Code Color Instructions
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:This just seems silly because that isn't remotely the point of wedding photos and who cares what guests are wearing in photos anyway?


They seem to care more about photos than about the concept of marriage.


But I mean how often do you look at your wedding photos and, when you do, what is the thing you focus on.

Like, sure we have this one nice photo from my wedding that's framed and referenced often but specifically because my FIL died unexpectedly the next year and it's one of the last really nice photos of him dancing with his kids.


I haven't finished the album 30 years on. We have one wedding photo hanging on the wall.
Anonymous
Post 04/23/2025 10:22     Subject: Wedding Guest Dress Code Color Instructions
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:This just seems silly because that isn't remotely the point of wedding photos and who cares what guests are wearing in photos anyway?


They seem to care more about photos than about the concept of marriage.


But I mean how often do you look at your wedding photos and, when you do, what is the thing you focus on.

Like, sure we have this one nice photo from my wedding that's framed and referenced often but specifically because my FIL died unexpectedly the next year and it's one of the last really nice photos of him dancing with his kids.
Anonymous
Post 04/23/2025 10:18     Subject: Wedding Guest Dress Code Color Instructions
It is absolutely a thing now even if the olds don't like it. (I am an old.)
Anonymous
Post 04/23/2025 10:15     Subject: Wedding Guest Dress Code Color Instructions
Anonymous wrote:This just seems silly because that isn't remotely the point of wedding photos and who cares what guests are wearing in photos anyway?


They seem to care more about photos than about the concept of marriage.
Anonymous
Post 04/23/2025 10:12     Subject: Wedding Guest Dress Code Color Instructions
This just seems silly because that isn't remotely the point of wedding photos and who cares what guests are wearing in photos anyway?
Anonymous
Post 04/23/2025 10:12     Subject: Wedding Guest Dress Code Color Instructions
It seems these brides think they deserve a royal wedding. However, even the royals don't have a color palette. No wonder weddings cost a fortune.

Anonymous
Post 04/23/2025 10:09     Subject: Wedding Guest Dress Code Color Instructions
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I would ignore. What are they going to do, kick you out?


See above post about being Photoshop out of pictures lol


Can't they let guests wear whatever color they want and then Photoshop whatever's unacceptable? Or just have black and white photos?


Or just not focus on this very small part of this very big occasion!?
Anonymous
Post 04/23/2025 10:07     Subject: Wedding Guest Dress Code Color Instructions
Anonymous wrote:Seems a bit rude. If it's something like "don't wear white", well yeah I knew that already. If it's like "women please wear yellow, men wear aquamarine ties", that's super irritating because you're demanding I go out and buy a specific outfit for your wedding and it's controlling.


Even “don’t wear white” is too much. if I have a go to off-white sheath dress that I wear to most summer occasions, let me. If other guests think I’m trying to to upstage the bride, let them judge me. You just be happy I came.
Anonymous
Post 04/23/2025 10:03     Subject: Wedding Guest Dress Code Color Instructions
If it’s easy enough and I really like the couple, I might do it. But I would probably just send a gift and RSVP regrets.
Anonymous
Post 04/23/2025 10:03     Subject: Wedding Guest Dress Code Color Instructions
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I would ignore. What are they going to do, kick you out?


See above post about being Photoshop out of pictures lol


Can't they let guests wear whatever color they want and then Photoshop whatever's unacceptable? Or just have black and white photos?
Anonymous
Post 04/23/2025 10:01     Subject: Wedding Guest Dress Code Color Instructions
It's nuts. I'll encourage my kids to go to the courthouse during their lunch break.

What are the stats on how long these Instagram marriages last?
Anonymous
Post 04/23/2025 09:57     Subject: Wedding Guest Dress Code Color Instructions
Anonymous wrote:I would ignore. What are they going to do, kick you out?


See above post about being Photoshop out of pictures lol
Anonymous
Post 04/23/2025 09:57     Subject: Wedding Guest Dress Code Color Instructions
I think it's obnoxious. Weddings are already expensive for guests and now our clothing options are limited? No thanks.
Anonymous
Post 04/23/2025 09:55     Subject: Wedding Guest Dress Code Color Instructions
Anonymous wrote:It’s fine, but if I don’t already have a dress in one of your preferred colors, consider me purchasing one as my wedding gift to you.


I definitely agree, but you may want to buy a card and put this note in there; otherwise how will they know you’re not just being cheap/rude