Anonymous
04/21/2025 09:46
Subject: Have we become descentized about beautiful women?
Anonymous wrote:No, we have been desensitized to filters and lenses, OP.
Pretty much this. Younger women especially are being taught that filters and “no makeup” with loads of makeup are natural
Looks. Not having a full lash job is “normal” and doing something as basic as wearing mascara isn’t enough.
Now the rest of OPs rant about years ago I don’t get. I mean I wore shoulder pads in the laugh 89s early 90s and I don’t surmise that anyone thought that was my natural
Shape.
Anonymous
04/21/2025 09:45
Subject: Re:Have we become descentized about beautiful women?
Anonymous wrote:Actual beautiful people are rare. Being fit and wearing makeup is not beautiful.
but many men equate being "dolled up" and wearing pants which reveal evey curve and crease with beauty. As a woman, I equate a warm smile and bright eyes with beauty. People who look and act friendly are beautiful to me.
Anonymous
04/21/2025 09:39
Subject: Have we become descentized about beautiful women?
I don’t tend to smell beautiful women either. If they have enough money for lashes, good makeup and regular workouts, they probably get good deodorant and smelling products too.
Anonymous
04/21/2025 09:30
Subject: Re:Have we become descentized about beautiful women?
The average person in dc does not look good. Get outside an urban area, everyone is fat. People wear sweats and yoga pants and look unwashed. People dressed and looked better in the 60s-70s even if they visibly aged.
Social media is a tiny fraction of the population,
I actually think women look worse with all of the injections and fillers and surgery…and they all look alike- the ones that do it. The young girls that do it look like middle aged housewives.
Look at how unique and beautiful actresses and models were 20-30-40 years ago.
Social media is a tiny fraction of the population,
I actually think women look worse with all of the injections and fillers and surgery…and they all look alike- the ones that do it. The young girls that do it look like middle aged housewives.
Look at how unique and beautiful actresses and models were 20-30-40 years ago.
Anonymous
04/21/2025 09:30
Subject: Re:Have we become descentized about beautiful women?
Anonymous wrote:Where do you meet that many beautiful women OP? I’m a woman and it strikes me how unattractive (on average) are women in gyms now.
If you are judging by Onlyfans it’s the adverse selection problem
Same. I think some of it is the androgenous clothes, hair parted down the middle and slicked back, and the extra weight.
Anonymous
04/21/2025 09:20
Subject: Re:Have we become descentized about beautiful women?
Anonymous wrote:
I see NONE of what OP is talking about in my NW DC neighborhood. Some women are quite polished, yes but this is not the town where people make careers based on their looks.
I’ll take average looking and polished over a poorly dressed beautiful woman any day.
Anonymous
04/21/2025 09:15
Subject: Have we become descentized about beautiful women?
No, we have been desensitized to filters and lenses, OP.
Anonymous
04/21/2025 09:15
Subject: Have we become descentized about beautiful women?
Anonymous wrote:Have we become descentized about beautiful women?
It seems as if today every woman is beautiful, in great shape, wears the same formed fitting clothing, hair/makeup always done, beautiful skin, beautiful eye lashes etc
When I met my ex wife 25.years ago it wasn't like this. I feel like 25 years ago you had to peel layers and layers. Now it's readily available.
I’m impressed so many people tried to understand the nonsense written here.
What the F does “beautiful eye lashes” have to do with “needing to peel layers and layers” 25 years ago? Are you trying to compare outward attempts at beauty (if you honestly think fake eyelashes look amazing, seek professional guidance) with inner layers of beauty? Besides your laughable spelling error (DESENSITIZED is I think what you were going for) your post makes little to no sense.
Anonymous
04/21/2025 08:37
Subject: Re:Have we become descentized about beautiful women?
I see NONE of what OP is talking about in my NW DC neighborhood. Some women are quite polished, yes but this is not the town where people make careers based on their looks.
Anonymous
04/21/2025 08:00
Subject: Have we become descentized about beautiful women?
Anonymous wrote:Yes we have. Despite women being more independent, their objectification continues to worsen. Take onlyfans as classic textbook example. Most content is provided by women for men to consume. To justify this objectification for women, they argue that women making money on this platform is empowering. They are just low hanging fruits. The owners of that site most likely men are the ones profiteering.
Back to your question. It's a tricky question because women argue that you "don't have to look".and they are not putting on make up etc for you. But at the same time if they are single and looking they expect you to compliment them on the effort they put in.
But overall I'll agree that men (thanks for social media another vehicle to exploit women) have become decentized. Maybe that's why you now so many men under 40 needing Viagra...
But every woman IS beautiful in her own way! This obsession with appearances is so destructive and toxic. The men who focus on it need to be avoided because they are dismissing like 90% of the normal population of women (who are more amazing and beautiful in their own ways).
Anonymous
04/21/2025 05:11
Subject: Have we become descentized about beautiful women?
Anonymous wrote:I can't get beyond descentized.Anonymous wrote:Have we become descentized about beautiful women?
It seems as if today every woman is beautiful, in great shape, wears the same formed fitting clothing, hair/makeup always done, beautiful skin, beautiful eye lashes etc
When I met my ex wife 25.years ago it wasn't like this. I feel like 25 years ago you had to peel layers and layers. Now it's readily available.
Me too.
Anonymous
04/21/2025 04:58
Subject: Re:Have we become descentized about beautiful women?
Anonymous wrote:Actual beautiful people are rare. Being fit and wearing makeup is not beautiful.
With so many people these days getting cosmetic surgery and/or Botox + fillers, etc. it is hard to separate someone w/the true birthright of beauty from someone who has been surgically altered or enhanced.
Take Kylie Jenner as an example…..
Had she not had all of that surgical work done on her face & body, it is doubtful that she would have had a successful beauty brand that generated millions.
People are drawn to her brand because they think she is beautiful.
Anonymous
04/21/2025 03:42
Subject: Have we become descentized about beautiful women?
Anonymous wrote:I can't get beyond descentized.Anonymous wrote:Have we become descentized about beautiful women?
It seems as if today every woman is beautiful, in great shape, wears the same formed fitting clothing, hair/makeup always done, beautiful skin, beautiful eye lashes etc
When I met my ex wife 25.years ago it wasn't like this. I feel like 25 years ago you had to peel layers and layers. Now it's readily available.
Me neither.
Anonymous
04/21/2025 00:49
Subject: Have we become descentized about beautiful women?
Anonymous wrote:Have we become descentized about beautiful women?
It seems as if today every woman is beautiful, in great shape, wears the same formed fitting clothing, hair/makeup always done, beautiful skin, beautiful eye lashes etc
When I met my ex wife 25.years ago it wasn't like this. I feel like 25 years ago you had to peel layers and layers. Now it's readily available.
Have you ever met a beautiful white collared professional woman who graduated from a prestigious college and program?
And wtf is “beautiful eye lashes”? Those fake ones that angel Reese wears? Those look like trash.
This OP must be a troll. Total nonsense. Go let the trash date the trash. The rest of us are busy with real lives and goals.
Anonymous
04/21/2025 00:46
Subject: Have we become descentized about beautiful women?
Botox on auto correct