Anonymous wrote:I'm with you OP. Spouse likes it, but it never stays on very long. Kind of a waste of $$ if you ask me

Wait until you find out what an engagement ring costs.

Just the idea that she was thinking sexy enough thoughts to a) shop for it and buy it and b) put it on before she came over and revealed it is sexy in and of itself.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is so pathetic

What part?

All of it. Changing your personality for the guy your dating.

And the general being a personal sex doll inspired by porn and thinking it makes you sexy, sex positive

Maybe instead of being a judgey judy about it, maybe you could see it as exploring new facets of your own life? It's not "changing your personality" to change your clothes, and it can be for you, not just for someone you're dating.

I'd love to hear how you define "sex positive" though. Sounds fascinating...

I'm a middle aged man. My ex wife never wore lingerie and I was fine with that. I liked removing her regular flannel pajamas. She also was a bit chubby and wouldn't have looked great in most lingerie, although I think some styles would have been very nice.

A few women I've dated since my divorce have been really into lingerie. I got into it because of them. Part of it is the fun and sexiness in the moment but part of it is the memories I have later.

It's pretty obvious that some women feel more confident and get more excited when they're wearing lingerie. Lingerie isn't just for men to enjoy.

I've bought lingerie for three women and they all loved it. So did I. It usually didn't stay on for very long but stayed on long enough.

Here are my thoughts about what to buy:

1. Choose a color that will look good on the woman's skin. Hair color also may matter. Black usually works if you can't figure that out.

2. Pick a cut that will look good on her body. For women with mom bellies, a nighty and panties or a camisole and panties may be the way to go. You want her to feel good about herself, not worried that she doesn't have a good enough body.

3. Pick a fabric that feels nice to you and to her and still looks good. I like the smooth silky stuff. Some women prefer lace.

4. Pick something that fits her personality, not just her body. The really raunchy stuff won't work for some women. The more demure stuff won't work for others.

Warning. After you do a little online shopping, you'll be bombarded with advertising lingerie companies. That may be a good thing or a bad thing depending on your situation.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is so pathetic

What part?

All of it. Changing your personality for the guy your dating.

And the general being a personal sex doll inspired by porn and thinking it makes you sexy, sex positive

Good god, you sound like a drag.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is so pathetic

What part?

All of it. Changing your personality for the guy your dating.

And the general being a personal sex doll inspired by porn and thinking it makes you sexy, sex positive

And you wonder why your significant others cheated on you.

Anonymous wrote:A garter belt and some thigh high stockings is so hot. Add some heels and it's all over.

I’m the PP @ 18:43. She did wear high heels with jeans and the garter belt/stockings combo. Putty in her hands.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is so pathetic

What part?

All of it. Changing your personality for the guy your dating.

And the general being a personal sex doll inspired by porn and thinking it makes you sexy, sex positive

A garter belt and some thigh high stockings is so hot. Add some heels and it's all over.

Anonymous wrote:This is so pathetic

What part?

It’s just knowing you have it on. Dated a girl for years and she would wear crotch less panties or garter belt under her clothes unbeknownst to me. She then would either show or tell me and I would be no good for the rest of the evening. We would get home from a nice evening out and she would do a little burlesque show. Drove me crazy. It’s something simple as wearing lingerie that keeps me happy and not looking elsewhere.

This is so pathetic

Good quality lingerie can be worn every day. And every night. Find out what he likes and invest. Wear it throughout the day.

Adore lingerie on off. ..Have fun with it.

It’s for taking off, lol. At least I personally have never wandered around the house doing laundry in it.