Anonymous wrote:Sometimes a rolling highly intelligent conversation with a man turns into flirting. More when I was single. Things rare it a turn on; guy is usually good looking or decent looking. Harmless.

-female in finance w top mba.

And?

Anonymous wrote:What does being hit on actually entail? Asking to get a drink sometimes? Or just a compliment?

Sometimes I get the feeling that the posters who say they're hit on constantly (or their spouse are) may just be misinterpreting.

I'm pretty oblivious but instances where my wife remarked about it were a female coworker giving me a nickname, one making a comment on a dress shirt, and DS reporting that I had talked to Larla's mom the "entire" party.

Sometimes a rolling highly intelligent conversation with a man turns into flirting. More when I was single. Things rare it a turn on; guy is usually good looking or decent looking. Harmless.

-female in finance w top mba.

If you are a single man jn your 30s frequenting a space full of children's women in their 30s you will be hit on lol. But it's not about you, their biological clock is guiding them.

6'3 197 lbs 1/2 black white blond hair green eyes and I have never been hit on. Women always comment on my eyes my skin and hair but that's because I am beautiful (thanks mom I am her exact copy).

I don't get hit on because I am quiet/shy. Men who are outgoing and put themselves out there are the ones who get hit on.

Now when I was ready for a girlfriend it was quite easy. I just asked a friend of mine if she knew anyone who was single. She responded that she knew a few and I could pick lol. I got super lucky because she introduced me to an amazing woman and I proposed to her when we celebrated our 1 year anniversary.

How do you know a woman is hitting on you anyways? A lot of women are social and charming. It's hard to tell if they are making advances or just being Charmin women.

When I actually go into the office probably every other time I am there. But it is like the same clique of women who barely know me.

Just know of me - so I think it is a game to them.

Anonymous wrote:I'm barely average looking and I don't get hit on. That's something for attractive men only.

Best careful with the things that you read on this forum. I am very skeptical about men or their wives who claim that their husband or the husband claiming himself that they get hit on. A woman can smile at you, she can flirt with you, etc it doesn't mean that she is hitting on you or flirting you
. Some women crave attention as much as men..some of these women will "hit" on a guy just to draw attention to themselves. I have seen in many social settings.

Anonymous wrote:I am curious how often are you hit on by woman in this area and when and how does it happen and how do you respond if you are seeing someone especially?

never,

i think once in my life it happened.

I'm barely average looking and I don't get hit on. That's something for attractive men only.

Anonymous wrote:yeah - what does it mean to be hit on?

Sexy comment about you

Smiling and eyes

Giggles

Or an outright, Damn you looking good, let’s hang out.

My husband started getting hit on after he turned 40 like clockwork.

I have been hit on far more than him and much more when I was under 40 but still more than he is.

If you want to stay married, learn to not respond. That’s all there is to it. If you don’t want to stop responding, then you don’t want to be married.

A few times for me this has been difficult because there were feelings but I don’t regret it at all.

All the time by moms in my kids sport events. Grocery stores and even while driving. Yes, I am good looking, and very aware of my surroundings but not looking for the attention either.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH is hit on all the time. I think it’s funny. He quickly mentions he is “more than happily married” and doesn’t let anything happen beyond that.

He gets hit on while with you? I think women hit on men more than women get hit on

Right?

If he is getting hit on with his wife by his side, that's more about bullying the wife than it is flirting with a man.

yeah - what does it mean to be hit on?

Anonymous wrote:What does being hit on actually entail? Asking to get a drink sometimes? Or just a compliment?

Sometimes I get the feeling that the posters who say they're hit on constantly (or their spouse are) may just be misinterpreting.

Yep. Agree. People think normal friendliness is a come on